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amir preity - can a girl and boy jyust be friend?
India
February 7, 2007 4:55am CST
hey ppl out there here is ur friend back.... tell me once thing u people.... do u agree that a girl and a boy, being always together can just be FRIENDS//// I believe that in almost all the cases it is not possible as the love will have to intervene.... and it does come in between..... but still wanna know what do u ppl believe about this?
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10 responses
• China
15 Feb 07
Yes,they can be good friends like brother and sister.
@Bangalorean (1282)
• India
15 Feb 07
Your question is form the old school of thought. But times have changed,concepts of friendship have changed, maturity level has changed and so the validity of your question. Friendship is basically used by many to hide their actual intentions of interest in that person.If the intentions behind is filled with malice then its for sure that it would end up into other issues and then what you have said would become true. Anyways its all, as to how you look at it
• India
8 Feb 07
yes a boy and girl can be friends throughout the life.. but the society is having a bad opinion on them and they tend to think that it is love and start to love.. thus it is the part of the society that changes the friendship into love..but if a boy abd girl thinks they can live to be friends forever
@superbren (856)
8 Feb 07
i dont think its the love that intervenes , i think its the lust. i have seen it over time and time again . with friends , with myself. they are great friends for a while , then the flirting starts , then the accidental touch , then... it is possible though but lust has a lot to answer for and i guess thats normal too.
7 Feb 07
Of course opposite sexes can be friends. There is no reason why not
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
well, i think thery can be just friends, even there is love in between... that love maybe if just for saying you'll always be there when she/he needs someone to talk with... love comes when you least expect it right... so you can be friends with a girl/boy with no special meaning...
@kushal24 (200)
• India
7 Feb 07
i dont think they can actually be friend.a guy and a gal can only be friends if they have a slight repulsion between them physicaly.i hope you know what you mean.if there is too much repulsion they wont be able to remain friends
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
Hey it is possible that 2 different sexes that always together remain as friends. It happened to me, we were best friends for 5 years. We didn't fall in love with each other. It is possible dear. :-)
@Mazna123 (65)
• India
7 Feb 07
ofcourse a girl and boy cn b good frds...infact one of my best frd is a boy.... we are frds since four years... n after 4 yrs i m with smeone else... he knws everythg and evreythg abt me... he is the one evn if he calls me bad or anythg i dnt mind.... it use to happen b4 the unesiness between a bou n girl not nymore.... a girl n boy definately cn b frds.... trust me......
• Romania
7 Feb 07
they can be... but this depends on many aspects i think thir relation must relay on friendship and not on love.anyway its very difficult!it could intervine body attraction and thing may start to complicate...depends to parson to person