looking for in a man

This seems like such a loaded question, because what a woman looks for in a man is tailored to each woman's want and need and her personality. Not to be a turd, but what I looked for in a man was only partially what I have in a man. I am very fortunate that he didn't meet up to all my prerequsite standards as it keeps our relationship interesting and fresh. I'm glad he's not everything that I wanted him to be...I was fortunate enough to meet someone who has so much more. I think if you're wondering what women want in a man, you're likely to get a lot of different answers since no two people are alike. The best advice I can offer though I know you didn't ask, is to just be yourself. There is a woman out there looking for exactly what you've got. In order to meet that woman you have to get out and meet people. Never tailor yourself for someone else...just be who you are.