unemployment
By abhisheka
@abhisheka (5)
India
February 7, 2007 2:35pm CST
hi,i m the student of pre-final of mech. engg.,now a days i m to much worry about the job becoz my communication is not good,due to that i m unable to improve my confidence,then what should i do for increasing the confidence and communication and i think its also a big problem with lots of guys but they r unable to express his feeling with the other,so what shoulg we do?
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38 responses
@prasad1961 (5597)
• India
9 Feb 07
Its not only your problem, this is purely youth problem in India. Most of the students are educated at the basic level with regional languages as the main medium of taught. This is the main cause for failure for exposure to the international standards. This is the same feeling throws latest generations
in a fix. Parents are unable to explain in detail to their children due to lack of exposure. Youth is midst of the faster growth and uncontrollable activity makes over exposure or under exposure without self confidence. The only solution is help the next generation in right way and get benefits in future.
@chintan_inc (224)
• India
8 Feb 07
well well well...let me tell you one thing. Degree just opens the gate for interview and then there you need to perform well. you need to communicate well and confidently. If you can not do it properly they will not employ you... i am sure. so i think to get some improvement.. go for public speaking classes....and often talk with your friends in English if u have problem communicating in English. Every day take a blank paper and write there that " I will communicate clearly and properly". Start telling yourself every day and every min that you will communicate well and then also apply it. take out the fear and you will get successful. No person comes to this world perfect and they all learn here and not at their mother;s womb. so start believing in your self from today and best of luck.
@avs189 (1030)
• India
8 Feb 07
I guess you can only help yourself....confidence is something that cannot acheived within day...it has to be acheived over period of time...i would suggest keep on chatting online that would help u in increasing your usage of english language...as well as help u to build confidence in vocabulary..next i would suggest you is to start speaking in english with others whom u wanna communicate in english....
@samraf (725)
• India
8 Feb 07
well i think for that you should be talking to strangers as much as you can , try to talk as much as you can, and obviously try to have english communication with every one. that will grow your confidence. try to be slow and very clear to the other person.
well i was having this same problem in my intial days but some how i had gain my confidence although its not enough till yet but yes i had improved alot.
note down my tips and try it as much as you can and you will see the difference .
Regards,
Sam
@koh2007 (341)
• Singapore
8 Feb 07
take up some communication skill course to boost up your confidence
@pmgsan (149)
• India
8 Feb 07
Dear abhisheka! don't get disheartened just because you are poor in communication. What is communication?. It is just the expressions only. What you think in your mind you must spell it out. Thats all.You have already communicated
to the other person to whom the message hasto reach.You did
this with out any problem.Now the problem is talking out,
i.e. the oral communication.It is simple.In the begining to
start with try to speak for your self in a closed room.By
practicing regularly you will automatically pick up the fluency what is needed. Don't loose the self confidence.It is the most important thing in any body`s life.Cheerup.When
you think you can,you can do it.This is the secret of ones
success.
@rocker087 (2)
• India
8 Feb 07
hi there
I had the same problem, so try to talk to many people and get some confidence.
Be good and confident in wat u are specilized in.
@lastcrush2003 (379)
• India
8 Feb 07
hey Abhisheka,
well i agree with you that in todays world communication skill is very important and you will require in every field, better you should try to improve it by reading newspapers and try to speak out with your collegues because not only it will help you in communication skill alsop it will improve your confidence
@apoorvbadami (10)
• India
8 Feb 07
dont worry about being unemployed as its just a phase that you need to go through. everything that happens is happening for your own good and be optimistic
@shiva07 (9)
• India
8 Feb 07
I think every person has his own ability to express oneself in a good manner.the only thing he lacks is his confidence.A person can improve his communication skills by inteacting with people.It might be his friends or family members or his neighbours.one common thing many students face is stage fear.It can be overcomed by giving seminars and involving in such activities.by doing these simple things one can be confident to face any interview.
@pradeepudr (96)
• India
8 Feb 07
don't take tension my dear...
it is the struggling time of your life that comes in everybody's life, I have also struggle till 3-4 months from november to feb 2006 .. so just take it easy and try somewhere regularly.
Even you have a good degree as mech.eng. so work hard and improve your confidence, by read some motivational books or english newspapers as much as you can.
I have completed my MCA in last april.
Best of Luck for your bright future.
@creechy29 (132)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
why dont you undergo some Personality Dev't course or speech training it will teach you to improve your communications skill as well as building your self confidence im saying this to you coz im also undergo that training and believe it helps me alot to improve myself.
@smrohitsm (231)
• India
8 Feb 07
hi buddy
You havent mentioned your exact problem.Is it because of some problem while speaking like stammering etc or just plain fear of public speaking.
In case of the former problem, u can get take expert help. There are many courses that can get you rid of that problem.
Fear of public speaking can be dealt with by trying it out amoung your group of friends. Try speaking infront of all your classmates. This will give you confidence and in the future you wil be able to speak infront of many other people.
Remember you can only talk to human beings. So dont get intimidated by someone's personality.
Most importantly start speaking slowly. It gives you time to think before you say anything. In the longer run this will only increase your confidence.
All the best. :)
@joannmae18 (70)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
Me too. it's almost a year since I graduated college and I'm still unemployed
@raghavanjm (5)
• India
8 Feb 07
I'm Raghavendiran.Unemployement is major worry to the developing countries..
I can be controlled by self enployement,in the way starting own small scale business..
IT industries are playing major role in creating opportunities to the young graduates in India.
It seems to be India will become developed country before 2030.
@raghavanjm (5)
• India
8 Feb 07
I'm Raghavendiran.
Unemplyment is the major threat to the devolping countries like India.
Nowadays,IT industries playing major role in creating opportunities to young graduates across country.
Another way to control unemployment is self-employment...
It seems India will become developed country before 2050.