my husband is mad

I am not exactly sure what to do about this since it is out in public. Men can be pigs and more so the younger ones. When out with your husband try walking close to him and flash your wedding ring if you wear one at those who persist on flirting with you. This will sound silly, but in most malls they have security personnel talk to them about any persistant guy that is bothering you. There isn't much one can do to stop people from staring or looking at you, but the flirting you can pretty much stop before it begins. I wish you luck and hope this matter is resolved soon.

I'm not sure that I understand the situation. You went to the mall and a guy told you that he saw you the other day and your husband caught him looking at you and your husband asked him if he could handle a 23 year old? I don't get it. Sorry! As far as people trying to flirt with you or staring you down, there is nothing that you can do to stop it. Just don't respond. Don't flirt back, ignore them.