are you friends with your 'ex'...??

India
February 7, 2007 3:25pm CST
well it does feel wierd ..nt the bad wierd..but kinda feel incomplete...i feel things shud'nt hav ended up the way they did...ofcourse talkin to my ex is sumthng dat m nt really gud...d thngs v did keep flashin in my head...feels different...after all these..i really feel i cant be in touch wid my ex leave alone bein frnz...coz its jus sooo damn difficult to talk normal or loosen up wid sum1 u luved.....
3 responses
@fliffy555 (1044)
7 Feb 07
Im not friends with my ex's but i would love to be but i dont think that would be a good idea as i do still have feelings for him and if i was friends with him i know they would come back to the surface... i also found out that he too has feelings for me so although i wish to be friends with him i dont think it could ever be so
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• India
8 Feb 07
well...that is what is said...feelings dont die out so easily..or maybe they never die out...once u talk to ur ex- d luv u had has to surface in sum or d othr manner
• United States
7 Feb 07
I used to be friends with most of my exes, but most of them had a hard time accepting that I am married now and it is no longer appropriate for us to discuss some of the things we used to discuss or to stay on the phone chatting for hours. One of them understood that and we still talk sometimes and I consider him to be a friend.
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• India
8 Feb 07
well i cant speak of bein married..bt m engaged nw..kinda half-married...so...yeh...i do talk to my ex-..nd sumtimes i feel guilty coz wenevr i talk to my ex i start flirtin wid her...u knw...d stuff i used to tell her wen she was with me..
@pmalinro (65)
• Romania
7 Feb 07
it's hard to be friend with someone you loved but you can manage . i am frinds with all my ex's but i still get jealous when i see them with someone
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• India
8 Feb 07
yeh dude...i agree...its sumthng like i cant accept it knwin dat shes nt mine n e more.....