whats wrong with my discussions???

Some discussions seem to hit it off and some don't. NOt sure why. I can offer a few suggestions to your writing style that might help. One is to type all words out and not use text speak, for example using "u" instead of typing out you. I know some readers will pass it by if they see things like that. Also the use of ... You do use it a lot and it can make it harder to read. Other then that I think you just have to give it time. I've had some that only get a couple of responses and then others that have gotten a bunch. It depends on the day, the mood of posters, and what they are looking for.

I've never gotten many responses either, but then I'm not trying to get a lot. I just want an intelegent conversation.

Maybe there's just nothing wrong with your discussion. Its just that people often see those discussions with a eye-catching charm in them that makes someone noticed it even in a single glance. Just do choose a topic that can make the readers eager or else those that can make them react so that the people might notice your discussion...