Do you ever wished you were not married????
By ireneortiz
@ireneortiz (272)
Philippines
February 7, 2007 11:46pm CST
I have been married for 3 years now and at the start of our marriage we had a big fight and I wished then that i should not have marry him?
did you ever experienced it?
3 responses
@ireneortiz (272)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
Good for you you are not yet married. Just an advice from my experience. Choose very well your partner because it is a lifetime commitment. It is better that you found the right person than found out too late that you are not compatible to be with together and later on your marriage will suffer.
You still have time, choose very well , take your time.
@preetikiran (76)
• India
8 Feb 07
Marraige is a sensitive decision of ur life.U should decide very carefully.I too have been married for 3 years now and iam very happy with my life with my beloved husband.He is very caring.He loves me alot.I cant even iamagine myself without him.He is the sunshine of my life i love him like anything.Iam ver crazy about him iam very mad about him.
@ireneortiz (272)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
Maybe you have found the right guy for you. What if it is too late for you to find out that you cant get along well living together. You are so lucky that he loves you a lot and I envy your life. I wish my husband could also be like that. Well atleast now he's getting matured and now knows how to handle responsibilities, I am hoping it will continue.
@jenongchan (12)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
i've also been married for 3 years and one thing i wish is that someone really sat me down and told me how hard it would be. i love my husband dearly and i cannot imagine living my life without him but i think the most difficult year in marriage is the first.
we all have these delusions that the first year of marriage is all sweet hence the "honeymoon period" but no one really tells us about how hard it is to adjust and how you discover things about your spouse that you'd never think they'd do and are hard to accept... but bottom line is marriage is not just about love - it is about commitment.
marriage teaches you to accept someone in spite of your differences and to work it out. i think that's why they generally say marriage is wonderful because it will motivate you to be a better person for yourself and for your marriage. i know a lot of married women who "regret" their decision but i think we can all agree marriage is a decision we made. we should stick to that decision of COMMITTING in that relationship (unless the guys a cheater or he's abusive- then that's a diff story)
