My boyfriend's parents insist on 10,000 plus dollars to let him marry me.How??

i think there shud not money comes in between realtions,,,if money is in between realtionis absurd and try to avoid such type of realtion and try for any new good person who does not demand any money for marrying...

This is like asking for dowry. I think bettrer talk to your fiancee and tell him about his father's phone call and give him, time to decide what he wishes to do. He should solve the problem with his parents on his own. It is up to him what he wishes to do. You are still seprate individuals with your own problems, ask him if he is ready to share your problems with you and do the same for him. find a middle ground by speaking to him that will be the best.

Sounds to me like they are trying to keep you from getting married. Didn't you say there had been family objection in the past?

Hmmm.. I don't get it, what this being unmarried do something about paying debts? I mean he could pay it (if your husband wanna be) if he really wants even he is married, right?

Sometimes parents think it's more important for the child to payback whatever they owe in the family before going into situations with others. But if he just bought a house, they need to understand how big of a commitment that is. You and him soon will be husband and wife and I think you should have a say along with him when he talks to his parents. He may not care about them trying to stop him from marrying and get married now to you. I would first see what this amount of money is for. Is it along the lines of paying back for schooling or something else? How serious it is will help determine how to deal with paying it back. But it should be his option on when he wants to marry you.

I would ask your fiance if he wants to marry you before the 2 years is up. if he says yes then I would try to convice his parents that him marrying you will only supplement his income and not cause more of a burden on their son