what's the impression you'd like to leave on people?
By chellicks
@chellicks (904)
Philippines
11 responses
@chellicks (904)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
So you mean that the saying "first impressions last" is true?
@dhiren_369 (276)
• India
8 Feb 07
hmm all i know is that i would hate people to have wrong impressions about me!!! instead i wud love to leave an impression that describes me as sweet ,understanding ,and sensible...
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@chellicks (904)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
yes of course. i think none of us wanted to leave wrong impressions. same here, i wanted to leave a sweet impression which can be remembered. thank you for reponsing.
@babyhar (1335)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
I want to leave the impression on the people I care about most that I was the type of person who stood up for what she believed in and defended those who she cared about most. Also I'd like to be remembered as someone who loved with her whole heart and gave of herself all that she could to the ones who mattered most to her. I want people to think about me in a good frame of mind and that I was able to leave a lasting impact on their lives.
Basically in the end I want people to get the impression that I am a good person right down to my very core. I know that one of my biggest and best traits is how I stand up for what I believe in and how I defend the people I care about from outside attackers. I treat people how they treat me and if they are going to stand up and fight for me when I cannot, then I will do nothing less than that in return for them.
I don't care for people who pick on someone just because they feel better afterwards or even just because they don't like that person. If they were in my circle of friends and I was with them an attack from someone else happened they could rest assured I'd be there to fight for them.
For the people closest to me, I love them with all that I am and I will always do my best to help them whenever they need it. Whether they need a shoulder to cry on or someone to hang out with I always make it well know that I am available 24-7 if they needed to talk or cry or whatever. I usually need that sort of comforting nature from someone in my life and as of right now there's only one person and he's my other half. I know I can count on him to cheer me up when the weather is terrible outside and I'm feeling miserable.
I'd like it to be that when I hear someone talking about me I don't have to be paranoid that they're bad mouthing me in the first place. Usually this isn't the case though, I usually act paranoid because those things are in fact happening like people bad mouthing ...who I want....I want people to talk positively about me and the type of person I am. I want them to sit there and be able to feel good about me taking care of them.
I give everything that I possibly can when working at a job and I hope that gives my employer the impression I'm a hard worker and I'm dedicated to my workplace.
I want as well people to be left with the memory of how open, honest and straightforward I was. I'm a very honest person and I hope that shows through all that I do and say. I also hope that people see how straightforward and up front I am about things when they ask about something. I am not a sugar-coater nor will I ever be. I've always tried as well to keep an open mind about things too.
So, in conclusion, these are but a few of the ways that I would want people to remember me for or as. I feel these are by far the more important points when it comes to me and who I am.
I'd like to believe that I am an honest, straightforward person who doesn't beat around the bush. I refuse to sugar coat things so I will say this, I cannot nor will I ever be the type of person to just blindly follow someone.... I've got a mind of my own and I hope that is one last little thing that people remember about me.
Thanks for allowing me to share! xx
@opinder (420)
• India
9 Feb 07
i want people to remember me as a simple ,straightforward and trustworthy person. sweet and all....is something that doesn't suit me very well. haha..
@chellicks (904)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
oh, so you mean you want other people to remember you with that characters that is not really in you? oh well, that's what you like. ok thanks for responsing!
@joygermino (466)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
i want to leave an impression that i am snobbish but approachable.
@chellicks (904)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
ok, nice one. its really good to be not snobbish. because i think snobbish people are not friendly. its good you're not an snobbish person. maybe you have many friends. thankn you for answering.
@marjonelle (798)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
The real me who is nice, sweet and friendly. I just don't want to be misinterpreted by people I meet.
@chellicks (904)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
good answer. that's true, because that's what i wanted too. i don't want others to misinterpret me.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
14 Apr 07
In my many years of handling University students, I have made very cosistent impressions on them. They Know am kind, I listen, I want honesty, i will not tolerate irregular behaviour. They know these of me and i have made it a point to them that these are impressions I first gave them on our first meeting and it is a consistent position!
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
26 Mar 07
Just that they can come to me if they need someone to pray with, and that I care.
@drakan291 (817)
• Ireland
26 Mar 07
I'd like people to see me as reliable but the y probably don't. I hope people get my sense of humour and don't think I'm a jerk. I would like people to think I am a decent character and fun.
@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
23 Mar 07
hmmm..
I want to be remembered as the girl who could put smiles on people's faces. I would also like to be remembered as a person who can still get through life inspite of the challenges along the way:)
@aengeLusz (81)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
i want them to leave an impression that i am liberated but at the same time sweet, a lifetime partner material, straightforward but could be sweet. which is who i really am.