When is enough Enough?
By neetrah_32
@neetrah_32 (234)
United States
February 8, 2007 10:29am CST
When is enough Enough? Should parents let their children run their home and let them physically and metally abuse them? What are your thoughts on this?
1 response
@sylvrrain (659)
• United States
8 Feb 07
No, absolutely not.
Who are the adults? Parents should respect the wishes of a child but should not give in to every desire.
My children lived by the rules of the household. My husband and I were the adults, we made the rules. I did not run a strict household, but by showing my children respect then they showed me respect. I did not spank my children, so physical abuse was not allowed in my home. Ever. There is absolutely no reason for it.
If you let your children get away with things when they are young, then they will continue to push the limits. Parenting starts when the child is born, and it never ends. There is a time to slack off, after they are grown and they have moved on to live their own lives.
@neetrah_32 (234)
• United States
17 Feb 07
I started parenting when my kids were born, but the kids of today WILL test you and PUSH your buttons. I did and still do incorporate spanking as a means of discipline. The peer pressure will a lot of times make kids do things they don't normally do, and sometimes, a talking to won't do the trick. For instance, if a kid starts because one of his friends did it and he wanted to fit in and we've had the discussion before and they know what they did was wrong, then that's a beat down.