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Its different for me because I'm am married. But if I wasn't and he was just a boyfriend: I'd dump him. He made the choice to get drunk. He made the choice to sleep with another girl. Now he is making the choice to try to excuse his behaviour instead of accept it and take responsibility. Eventually I would forgive him because I believe everyone should be forgiven, not for them, but for the person they have wronged. Its not healthy to hold a grudge forever. I wouldn't keep dating him though, his butt would be out! Especially since he's trying to say that he was drunk and its not his fault. What is going to happen next time he gets drunk?

Well i would leave him and move on with my life..coz he wouldnt deserve me

Get him drunk again and kick his but to the curb.

i think even me. as i dnt know the truth but god will help him wen i cm to knw the truth

That excuse is so old and overly used! trust me honey he knows what he was doing. and drunk or not cheeting is cheeting! and if some guy cheeted on me it would be over because i deserve more respect then that and so do you. if you forgive him this time he is going to think that he can get away with it again. my advise to you is not to forgive him and think long and hard before you try to work things out with him because like i said if he is going to do something like that then he doesnt repect you or love you.

Hi. yahooguy. I would forgive him because he was drunk. But I would not go back to him. I will leave him alone for good. Our relationship would be over and done with! He knew what he was doing. If he can remember that he messed around with another girl, then he could have stopped himself. If he is telling me that he was drunk, well then he could not have been too drunk to remember that he made out with another girl, huh??