when you cant have the person you wanted to love

Learn not to become limited in your Love choices. Try extending your desires to match what Love actually is: The Power to see the reflection of your own perfection in others and become attracted to them... Love that is shrunken down to a single being can really hurt if the affections are not returned. May Love, Joy and Prosperity come into your Life and never leave! :)

I guess find another person. I had that experience before, it was a crush in highschool. My friend liked him too so I kind of withdrew because I thought that was the right thing to do. None of us ended up approaching him and he dated another girl. If this person is yours, then it will happen. If not, then it will not. There is no point in lingering to the past or to someone. The person has his or her own right to choose who she or he wants to be with, this is not something you can buy or just grab from grocery shelves.

No one is worth ruining your life over. You demean yourself to think and act like your life is diminished merely because a certain person is unavailable to you. Have pride in yourself and find someone else who is even better!

I've been in that situation last year and still recovering from it. I'm still longing for him, thinking, wishing that we can be together but it's impossible. What I did is focus on the consequence that if I pursue him there are so many people will get hurt. I always tell myself if I go for my feelings will I be completely happy at the expense of the other people getting hurt. I resigned from my work just to be away from him because I can't work with him knowing that I'll fall for him more. Now I work at home. I just want to do things by myself. What happend between and him is something that I will never forget, I'm in the process of learning to live the fact that there are things in life that you can't have. People that you can't have even if you know deep in your heart HE is the one. But the time and place that the two of you have crossed your path wasn't in the right time.

I will try to win his heart and I really can't, I will cry until I don't feel like crying about him anymore. I will go on with my life and try not to think of him anymore. I will keep myself busy.

well you just have to face reality.. be brave.. get over it.. live life normally.. accept that you aren't meant to be with that someone.. and find another someone who could love you back unconditionally..

If I cant be with whom I thought then perhaps I am wrong as many find out when they marry for the wrong reason or dont marry and have kids and then it all breaks down. We all do the best we can but sometimes we are wrong.

i think ishould just forget him, to do that no communication at all, no chat, email..everything to avoid hurting yourself

when u can't have a person, life just goes on, u know it happened to me as well and u should get over it somehow. u can just try 2 get away from him i mean try not 2 be around him so u dont see him or deal with him but honestly i don't prefer running away, u must get used to it and deal with him (if u had 2) based on that. Don't expect so much from his side like dreaming that one day he'll be urs coz this may damage his life and may ruin ur feelings as well. But can You be more descriptive and explain why can't you have him ???? is he in love with someone else ? is he married ? u can comfortabley answer, don't worry we or at least myself won't judge u but im trying 2 figure a way 2 relieve you.