Why can't I tell him?
By justagurl
@justagurl (42)
United States
February 8, 2007 4:04pm CST
I have a guy that I have been great friends with since high school he was always there for me through heart break and new relationships. We lost contact for a long time, then a few weeks ago my brother told me where my friend is. Ever since then he and I have been writting letters back and forth. In his first letter he told me that he has always had more then friendship feelings for me. I am already in a relationship but I to have always wanted my friend to be alot more. Do you think I should tell my friend how I feel and nothing can happen because I can't hurt the one I'm with or keep it to myself?
2 responses
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
The way I see it, you are soulmates. You'd better give it a try. If you won't, once you lose him to someone else, you will keep on wondering whether you would have made it together if you had given your relationship a chance.
@SageMother (2277)
• United States
8 Feb 07
YOu might as well just keep it to yourself.
I see no benefit in your admitting undying love for someone who isn't emotionallly available to you beyond their being a good friend. YOu ahve live without this guy being a romantic partner so far, so don't change anything.
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