big deal..

Yes it has happen to me many times. Sometimes it is a just a small mistake that my boyfriend make, and I will make it as if it is a major crime or something ahahahha I think the reason is because he has done this over and over again, therefore its been building up in me or something like that. However it is not very good, I know, and Im trying to always keep all problems simple. whenever I face a problem or get angry I try to rein myself in and keep thinking that it is not a problem it is not a problem repeatedly until I became a bit calmer and can think clearly. Because a lot of time something seems like a big problems when Im angry, but after I calm down a little bit, it seems like nothing, and the solution is very simple actually. So Im trying to change that bad habit heheh

Everyone of us perceive things differently. Factors like time and places do plays a part and definitely maturity in our stages of life too. I remembered an incident that i argued over a newspaper hike (up by 10cts)which they suppose to charge the next day but was demand before, i was upset and my friend said ..."it is only 10cts, i could walk away to another seller, dont argue"..lol..but that was not i was fussy but ...it is the principle. I learnt sometimes we have to calculate what's worth and what's not