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Unfortunately, I know how that feels. I found out when as I grew up and seen her for who she really was. I was raised, mostly, by my grandparents and I am very thankful for that. I guess, you just look past it. You will never change who your mother is or change the things she had done or will do. If you love your mom, it will hurt, but you should not let it stop you from loving her. I love my mom, but it is not the kind of love my daughter has for me. It is more like the love for a distant aunt. I have learned what "not to do" from my mom, and that is the greatest lesson I could have ever learned. I give her my gratitude for the way I was raised, because of that, I may have not been such a good mom to my kids, and I would not have the values and morals that I have. I did everything in my power to "not" be like her, and in the process, I think I turned out pretty good.