loving wrong guys!

I spent many of my best years loving the wrong guy. I can never get those years back. If the man is using you for your money and your body, it best to get out NOW and not wait for years to past and then say I gave him the best years of my life. Try to find a mature caring man to spend your time with. good luck!

I can't seem to get it right! Every guy I've even given a second look turn out to be a jerk! I give up.

I think I have the same problem.. I always get stuck with wrong guys... Well I should not say "always" as it just happened 2 times.. and after "2" experiences like this I still have some hope left. God knows why! huh I loved a guy who only wanted my body.. Well again that's what I think.. life is just too weird. (distance relationship though we lived in the same city) Firstly the guy tried to convince me to come to his home (where he lives all alone) I kind of did get convinced .. after a long argument and fights.. and after wards he himself stopped to come to him. He confronted all his intentions and all of that. And after that he said that he loves me now. We talked for months but one thing never changed is that he still wanted me to meet him in an isolated place and i.e. his home (which was available) After some more months I asked him that if he only wanted to make love to me.. he said yes but not "only" he said "yes of course but that's not the only thing I want from you"!! I mean DUDE stop playing with words for God's sake!!! This all went for 4 years.. and now we broke up again. I loved him .. but I am not stupid to go and meet him in his home and that too in our very first meeting. At least give me some reasons to trust you. That's my story. I think I'll have to put a lot of effort to get a good guy. pheww..!!

yes i also fall for wrong guys many times , they just wanted something from me. That 's really bad experience for me.

Wow loving you just for your body or money is common but loving your money and body is something. I guess you must have given them the chance to use your body. I guess you really did fall for the wrong guy. Well we all have to go through with it. I fell for the wrongs girls too but i'm moving on and hopefully, the next girl is the right girl for me. I hope it goes the same for you too. So good luck for us!

Yes, I too have been in the same situation, and it makes you feel really low and useless at times. It can even make you feel like its the end of the world, but it isn't. Your heart just needs sometime to heal and see how loving him just isn't right in in time, a time right for you, you will be okay.

i think i have loved a wrong guy before. :( but i think i have learned from it and have always not loved 100% to my bfs

l had that experience about twice, but l talk God l left before it was too late, and now i have found the right person meant for me.

Yes I loved the wrong guy. I didn't know it was wrong at first but I didn't think we were a good match and then we broke up. Then he started acting crazy and sent me emails threatening me, calling me by some not respectful words and stuff. At first when we broke up, I thought I would think of him as one of the nice guys I dated but just didn't work out due to some other issues. Now I just hate him and he wants to ruin my life. I won't let him. He is still bothering me and that won't change anything. That just explains why I did run away and I ran away for a good reason.

lol women are paradoxical.i do believe that some women love bad guys.for some they simply cant help getting involved with some certain kind of b a s t a r d s.i guess there are some attractions on those guys.but i myself didnt fall for any wrong guy yet.:)

I think at one point in our lives, we did.. .but to fall for somebody who only wanted my money and my body! No, I haven't but if I were the one, I would also feel the same way as you do...I mean hate that man of course. How could a man be so thick-faced as to empty your pocket dry? Well, ok, you fell into his prey...but next time around, do be careful because in as much as there are men who play with our emotions, there are also those who will truly love you for what you are. Let that wrong guy be a lesson for you. Junk him, and move on with your life.

yes, i'd admit that i've ever loved the wrong gug, he deceived me, he ate all of his words that he've said to me. He hurt me and hurt my heart badly, i just want to forget him and removed him from my heart and mind, but it seems it's really a hard thing for me to do. I still remember the good times that we've shared together. Of course , i know all the things have already gone away from me, he'd never come to me again, there is someone new ,he doesn't care me anymore, i just want to forget and forgive him, but i don't know how,really, the sorrow is so deep inside my heart.

erk..are u still with this guy? if he is taking advantage of you, better end the relationship now...if he doesn't love you and if you prolong the relationship, it might hurt even more..who knows, after that maybe you'll actually be able to find a guy who loves you for who you are. anyway, it's your choice..i hope you'll find your happiness sooner or later..take care and all the best :)

i love a wrong guy now, he's so perfect for me, i like her attitude and he also likes mine, we share different memories. never a dull moment when were together. but there's a problem, he already has a family. a understanding wife with two little cute kids. i don't know why these things happened to me. i know am too young for this kind of situation but i don't know how to stop this. i know this is wrong but i love him.. were now 4 mos and still counting. don't know how to stop this... all i know is it will eventually stop.. am just goin with the flow... we both know that it will eventually end.. and we're ready for that.. :)

I believe everyone loves the wrong guys or girls at first. My Grandparents told me something when I had a talk about dating and romance. They Said.. That They believed that we were all meant the wrong guys and girls at first... So when they met the right one they would appreciate it more... I think they had a good point with this. I believe my Grandparents were right with this one. They even had a quote that said about the same thing, but I do not remember the actual quote. :) - DNatureofDTrain

everytime i remember the pain that my ex bf cause i could say i love a wrong guy but come to think of it i have realized its not really meant for me and we are not really meant for each other. I was badly hurt but now i already cope with it, i realized i should be thankful because through that i became a more better person and now i know what i wanted nad know what im looking for.