i need help!!!
@sakura_ryuzaki (348)
Philippines
February 9, 2007 2:28am CST
how do you coupe with the lost of your mom... well, for me i haven't. i know its quite a while now since she passed away but still there is still this lingering longingness form her. i really miss my mom so much... my mom died of a chronic kidney diseases and up to now i still can bear with the pain. i always say to myself its ok although its not in the inside. i wish there are ways i could accept the fact that shes gone already and shes with our creator. you know my brothers and sisters have their own dream about how happy my mom is laready in the other side, but you know what i can't even have that kind of dream like them... i don't know why? i wish one of you people could relate and help me with my problem of accepting the loss of my mom. i miss her. and i love her so much... that it make me cry while doing this discussion. hope you can really help me with problem of mine.. thank you in advance.
3 responses
@dbeamon (128)
• United States
11 Feb 07
i to lost my mom. so yes i do know how you feel. my mom was not only a parent but she was my best friend in the whole world. im still not over loosing her. but what helpe is the fact that she is no longer suffering. my mom like yours was sick and was in alot of pain. i didnt like the fact that she was in so much pain. however i still wanted her here with me. but i do know that she is much happier and is watching over all of her kids and grandkids to makw sure they are doing fine. im grateful that i have my mom as my guardian angel. if you try to look at it that way then you will be able to get on with your life. does the pain of loosing her ever go away? no its always there however it does get easier every day when i think about how healthy she is and she is not on oxygen or taking insulin or any of the other meds she was on and for the first time in many years my mom is able to walk and enjoy these walks with out pain. god bless you and i hope that the responses you get here are able to help you cope with this loss. also you might want to seek grief counseling or have a friend that will listen to you and help you get over the loss of your mom. best wishes
@pyro19h (30)
• Bangladesh
9 Feb 07
hey i feel really sorry about your mom. i mean man it's tough. lossing your closes blood is really really tough. well i didn't really lose my mom but i lost my dad. and after that our family totally broke down and we were in a relly terrible possition, but my mom tackled the situation pretty well. yea i still feel sorry for my dad. but you see live moves on, so i think you should kinda forget what hapened and best thing is to, ummm i think you are a guy, so get a girl friend and that might solve your problem. i mean i did the same thing. so yea good luck......
@sakura_ryuzaki (348)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
sorry, but i'm a girl so i don't need one... well maybe its easy to a guy to forget but girls are emotional than boys... so iguess you couldn't relate that well with my problem... but thanks anyway for your opinion.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
9 Feb 07
I lost my mom when i was 12. So I do relate to you. It is hard. I still want her here with me. Some times I just need her to give me a hug and tell me it will be ok. I'm sorry for your loss . It takes time to get over it and you wil never get completly over it. You just have to try to keep going as best you can.
