Am I gonna tell my best friend that I love her?
By emblem_vir89
@emblem_vir89 (1)
Philippines
February 9, 2007 2:56am CST
I find it pretty hard to understand why we should not be in love with our best friend. I can't figure it out. At the first place, he or she knows everything about us; our secrets and other personal stuffs and routines. My best friend knows everything about me because I always come up sitting beside her when I feel uncomfortable. I tell her everything I feel. Days pass by, my feelings for her starts to change. I ask myself why this is happening but I couldn't find any idea. Until such time I figured out that maybe this is happening because we spend almost every time together in school and outside. Maybe this is happening because I feel comfortable everytime we're together. Everytime I spend my time alone, I ask myself if I should tell her how i feel. Am I gonna tell her that I'm in love with her? Can somebody please tell me what I'm gonna do?? PLEASE??
2 responses
@katan22 (325)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
I think that there is nothing bad with falling in love with your bestfriend and the best way to know how she feel is to ask her about her feelings for you. I think that you should tell her how you feel because there is this possibility that she like you too. About the friendship part, most people usually still be friends after they break-up and it all depends on how you two will react with the situation at hand.
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
That was really hard. Better to choose friendship or your feelings. If you choose friendship, then don't told here you love here more than friends. And if you choose your feelings, tell her you love her but don't expect that after telling it , friendship still be like before. It depends on how she reacted with it.
