how do you know he's THE ONE?
By iahnives
@iahnives (48)
Philippines
February 9, 2007 9:27am CST
when i got married, all my friends asked me if i knew what i was doing...if i'm 100% sure in taking the plunge. they often ask me, how did you know he's the one for you? honestly, i really don't know the answer. it's not that i literally don't know why, you just couldn't think of the right words to say...you really wouldn't know it. you really can't say. you just feel it. you know it's for you if you feel it.
if you were in my place, how would you know he's your destiny?
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5 responses
@thunderofsins (738)
• United States
9 Feb 07
I don't believe in a predetermined "the one". I believe that you chose who "the one" is. When you get married you take vows - and that is how you know they are the one. You chose them to be. You make a vow to them (and God, depending on your religion) for them to be the only one.
I know my husband is "the One" because on February 16, 2006 we made that choice and made vows to eachother.
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
15 Feb 07
i think it just happens like something is just going to happen. You simply cant resist it. I had rejected 3 boys for my arranged marriage but when i met him i simply was saying yes. Although i didnt like his hairstyle still my lips were saying yes he is the just right. He later changed his hairstyle but all i knew was i have found him. Just coming from deep within me.
@sevnthjuly (913)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
when i was still single i was into confusion as whom i would really end up with. so, i asked a friend who was married and she said i would know if i see him for the first time out of nowhere and i feel like i heard a bell ringing from the back of my head. before i met my guy (now my husband)i remember exchanging glances with him and somehow i heard that bell rang. and when you know that its really him you'll see a sign.
@danieler12 (63)
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9 Feb 07
u cant know that is the one like for sure because its not a question like u said u just fill the she/he is the right person for u and that is the man/weman that u want to spend the rest of ur life with!
@ireneortiz (272)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
You really cant tell whose destined for you. I guess if you feel that you cannot live without this person , then he is the ONE for you because he will make you live.
