I have feelings for someone and i dont know what to do?!?!
@browneyedwomen (1827)
United States
February 9, 2007 1:03pm CST
Ok I know that sounds harmless, but I just got out of a serious relationship, and its just kinda scarey! I met him innocently out with some friends, and we got some food. We all went back to another friends house to have a couple drinks. I wound up getting throwen in the pool and it wasnt very warm. Mean While I got there on a motorcycle and I wasnt about to be riding home soaken wet on the back of a bike..NO WAY~
Well I wound up stayen at the friends house and not getting any sleep...stayed up all night with a new friend just chatting...this is where Im not sure what to do... We both have feelings for eachother and we know, but Im probably moving in a couple months, and he's stuck here if I decide to move...Should I just look at it as just have fun while your gere and worry about the consequences once I come to them...Does any body have any solutions??
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@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
9 Feb 07
If the person you like feels the same way as you do and is agreeable to the fact that you may end up moving away in a couple of months then I would say , Yes , to go for it . You never know you may find the feelings stronger then you thought and may end up remaining together or that person may decide they can't bear to be parted from you and may decide they would like to move with you , to where you are going . I don't believe you should pass up a chance of happiness on the basis that you might be moving .
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@browneyedwomen (1827)
• United States
12 Feb 07
thats only one of the reasons why I would pass up on it...I just got out of a serous relationship. I dont know if Im rushing it or if I will be able to handle it. And again he makes me a very happy person...theres no stronger feelings I could have because the ones I have now are scaren me. He couldnt move with me because he's in the military...so I would either have to stay or we would have to do the long distance thing... I dont know
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@msqtech (15073)
• United States
2 Mar 07
Happiness should be sought but we should be careful not to rush as we can hurry easier into trouble.
@browneyedwomen (1827)
• United States
12 Feb 07
We communicate..thats how i know we both like each other...were both a little worried about when I do move and the only reason he cant move is because he's in the military!!! Reguardless...Im just so scared to get my self into the same thing I just got out of...
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