What can I do so my parent can trust and agree with me???
By radukugalati
@radukugalati (173)
Romania
6 responses
@vinaysingh007 (174)
• India
22 Feb 07
trust is a thing ones lost can't gain as i was.so the main thing is never lie about anything.give the right information to your parents.my father ones said that son whatever where ever you go you should inform us.
And the best thing is never do anything against your parents will whether right or wrong.
@ikinta (1236)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 07
Forget your mistake and move on..and try not to make more mistakes which of course we will. Just try not to. So what if they don't agree? I was 13 when I did my big mistake, and the biggest mistake was I keep doing it until I was 19. It was frustrating to convince my parent to trust me again but now they give their trust. Just give them some time;)
@emarie (5442)
• United States
9 Feb 07
what exactly did you do?? depending on what is it, is how you determine how to make up for it. most of the time, it will just take time for them to trust you again. just do things that would convince them that you know how to make the right decisions. tell me more about what you did, and maybe i can help a little more. i did quite a bit of things that made my parents upset when i was younger. i even took the car in the middle of the night but ...shhh... they haven't found out about that yet. i even lied to them a lot saying i was with my friends when i was really with my bf.
@RNcorrupted (191)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
What you should do is obey your parents until you graduate college. Make your grades high, always make them happy. Talk to them and ask them their expectations to you. And do those expectations. They will be happy and will learn to trust you. After that, if you made a simple request like going out with friends overnight, they will permit you to go. Just do not do something wrong when you go out. Remember, it's hard to build trust and it is easier to lose it.
@babysusie18 (231)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Hi.. You're still young and its normal if you've done some mistakes in your life. I do think that your parents still trust you, its just that they didn't want to show it to you because they think that you might over-do some things because you think they trust you already. And another thing is, at your age, your parents are still the best decision-maker and they know what's best for you. But you could still earn their trust by simple showing them that you're old enough to have your own decision. And if your really honest and sincere in telling them, they will understand you..
Hope this helps. =)
@billNted (39)
• United States
19 Feb 07
Hey, I am 21 and know the feeling. Have put my parents through just about anything you can imagine. Really gaining their trust and getting them off of your back are two different things. Work hard and try to stay out of trouble man, that is about all we can really do.