Would you go out with a guy that wasn't very nice to you?

@cher913 (25782)
Canada
February 9, 2007 2:47pm CST
I overheard my 13 year old daughter's conversation...she asked her friend when she asked her if she would go out with a guy that wasn't very nice to her...and her friend said...YES That made me wonder, would you date or sleep with a guy that wasn't very nice to you rather than being alone? Why? Just curious
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@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
9 Feb 07
hello cher!. how cute that 13 year's old now date.. i suppose you allow your daughter to date right?. anyways about the question, i wouldnt date or sleep with a person that isnt very nice to me. if someone is gonna sleep with me i think that that someone must be worth my time and my body and must be worthy to sleep with me. i think that i will only allow my husband to do that. about dates, i would go out with him because hey!. its free food.i he isnt nice to me then id do the same to him while we go out. LOLS.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
9 Feb 07
No way, she is far too young to date!
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
absolutely no...I'd rather be alone...
@34momma (13882)
• United States
9 Feb 07
that is such a great question. it reminds me of something i just heard yesterday. you teach people how to treat you. so people can't treat you mean if you don't treat yourself well how do you expect others to treat you the same. please go and talk to your little girl about that. it is said to know children are so lonely and unloved, and don't know what is to love themself they are willing to put up with being mistreated because they want to be close to someone. love yourself and everyone else will do the same
• United States
10 Feb 07
heck no! I have more respect of myself then to let myself be with some who won't treat me right. If I was even with a guy that treated me wrong or I just felt funny about, I'd be out of his life in a heart beat. Thats why I never dated till i was almost 20 and i'm now married to the only guy i've ever been with. I'd rather be alone then to be with a punk.
• United States
10 Feb 07
I'd rather be alone than be with a guy who didn't treat me well. I don't know why anyone would chose to be with someone who wasn't nice to them. Being alone isn't fun but at least you're not mean to yourself!
@kate1356 (697)
• United States
9 Feb 07
No, I wouldn't date a guy that wasn't nice to me. I would rather be alone. It would make me seriously question a woman's self esteem if she answered yes to this question.