what should i do?

No one can make this decision for you, this is a tough one. First off, the girl who loves you realy needs help if she cuts herself. Even if you dont stay with her, make sure that she gets help because that is a serious problem that could potentially have dire consequences if not taken care of. Second, if you dont love her and see her only as a friend, then you are wasting both of your time by staying with her if the relationship is one sided. It will be very difficult at first, but in the end she will find someone else, and you will be with someone who is more compatible for you as a girlfriend. If you want to be happy, your cousin is right...be with the one that lets you be yourself and be happy. I would not rush right into a new relationship though...give it some time.

The answer is simple and clear, go to the girl that you love and admit ur love to her on the opposite espy to the girl loving you that you can't share her the same feeling. look to ur future no to the moment.

my friend for you to be happy is to follow your heart. tell the girl you love what you feels and to the other girl who loves you make her feel special but tell her that you're both cannot be more than friends because you love somebody! and slitting her wrist will not make you change what your heart wants. tell her the truth.

just follow your heart, don't listen too much from other people. I suggest you to choose the girl who you loved.

I'm not trying to go "mom" on you, but I am anyway. If this girl is slitting her wrists to get your attention she doesn't need you, she needs help. Seriously. I think at you rage you shouldn't worry about having a relationship and enjoy your youth.

See life will always put you in these type of situations where its hard to take decisions.I will recommmend you that you first ask the girl who loves you.Talk to her she will really understand you.And if the girl whom you love ,loves you too then she will rather help you in your love. if i was in your pants i must have gone for the person who loves me as by doing this i am just giving the importance to love (which you also do)that you understan how important love is.bye all the best

Hey go for the gal who loves and admires u. That works out to be a lot better than going after someone that u like.

Wait and see if its really love, or lust. Have a nice day!

Well, If you love this other girl tell her how you feel. It will be up to her if she would accept your love or not..and talk to the other girl who loves you that you just love her as a friend and someone will love her someday..and tell her that she'll be happier then. Just be honest and tell how you really feel.

you should go for the person who makes you happy..you should always do what your heart tells you to..you should follow your heart..don't let that other girl stop your feelings..try talking to her,tell her that you only see her as a friend and nothing else..and if she really loves you,she would want you to be happy right?

u should accept the gal who loves u.

i think you should follow your heart.Man is different from a woman,coz its hard for a man to dictate their heart to love a woman.Yeah your cousin is right if you want to be happy follow your heart.

Advise is for you to revise.You should make your own decision.It is your own life isnt it so?Due to my opinion,i think you should tell the girl you love what you feel or you will regret one day.You wouldnt want her to get married before you have the chance to tell her how you feel right?Grab the chance to tell her.Its not wrong loving someone.But it is wrong to pretend to love someone you dont really love.You get what i mind?Things will change.You wouldn't know what will happen tomorrow or the day after tomorrow.Do the things that won't make you regret in the future.Hope all this helps.

i don't think you have any problem choosing the one you actually love and opening up to her as soon as possible before another guy comes around.the gal you are truly in love with makes you feel good and comfortable that ,you said yourself meaning that she has accepted you,probably she is waiting for you to make the first move by asking her to be your girlfriend.The other girl,remain a platonic friend with her.you don't have to be in love based on pity.as your cousin rightly said follow your heart and be happy.

Well are you sure you dont love the person who loves you?? first find that out ....and then act wisely... if you have that hidden love for the person who loves you then it is your duty to express it to her.. dont expect anything from a girl... she has done her part of making you feel her love... now its your duty to accept her if you love her too... may be there is more than friendship between you two.. if this doesn't workout.... find out how the girl you love feels about you... from other girls or those who are close to her... should be confidential one.... try your luck... but again if you are rejected and feel so bad then think of that girl who loves you so much and cares for you and you reject her how she should be feeling...

You just have to weigh things out. What should be best for you? If you think the girl you love could reciprocate the love you have for her, then it will be good for both of you. What you have to do is to first voice out your feelings to the girl you truly love. If it turns out right, then you have to talk to the girl who's in love with you to make her understand your dilemma.

yes love is not only about people whom u love but its also about people who love you....u should of course take a chance and tell the girl whom u loves...if she says yes well and good but if no then give her some time....if a personlove u its well and good but dont accept it thinking that ur doing some sort of kindness towards her...bcoz afterwards life may seem as a burden....

Dhigambaram, my friend... first of all, try to find whether the girl you love loves you too or not. If you get positive hints from her, by all means go for the one you love. But if you feel that she is not interested in you... Life is all about moving forward. Go for the one who loves you. You cant sit and cry all throughout your life.

You love the person you love ,you love the people you love ,is more often the choice loved bars

Well I guess the first question is have you ever let this girl who is in love with you let her think you love her? Have you told her you loved her, kissed her in a romantic way? Have you slept with her? If that is the case you have lead her down the wrong path. Slitting your wrists is not healthy obvsiously and she has mental issues that have nothing to do with you. So that is not your fault and you should urge your friend to get help right away!! As far as the girl you love, I wouldn't use the L word right away. I would take it slow,,,ask her out on a "date" and make it obvious it isn't in a friendly way. Make it obvious it's going to be a romantic thing. Give her a little card or flowers for Valentines day...something that suggests you would like to be more than friends..but don't come on too strong or she may get freaked out and run the other way! I hope this helps! Keep us posted!!