Gossip, backfighting these attitudes can irritate you....

well i dont like backfighters but the best thing to make them angry is to ignore them they just stab yuo at the back to be noticed and if you would show that waht they did, did not affect you they'll be in rage,,

You don't have to do anything to get even with nasty people. Their own folly will bring them to a lot of shame and mess, although it may seem that they're not headed to such an ill direction. Such people are bound to self-destruct.

i think all we get irritated,when someone do like this..we can change the mentality of these people...we should just neglect them..they are like small stones in the way,in our life...we should walk towards our goal without considering about these people...

I will not bother to even spare a little time to think about taking my revenge against people who loves to gossip or whatever. I once had a friend in College who backfight behind my back, stole things from me,etc. After confronting her, she refused to admit doing those things to me and even gave out an oscar performance. I readily forgave her for that. That was 8 years ago. Right now, she had migrated to US and was lonely because she has no friends. The friends she left behind here didn't trust her anymore. I think its called karma.