i loved my teacher
By shekharj
@shekharj (296)
India
February 10, 2007 5:20am CST
when i was in class 12th, i fell in love with my philosophy teacher who was about 28years of age. once when i approached her and told her that i love her, she gave me a big slap in front of everyone. Since then i had no faith in love!!! was i really guilty for loving my teacher? any comment?
4 responses
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
10 Feb 07
Though everyones first love is teacher, no one would have proposed the teacher so openly like you. If your son/daughter does this to their teacher will you tolerate. It is not your love, but infatuation.
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@e_himsi (2)
• India
10 Feb 07
well you are around 17-18 yrs. of age.This age is quiet vulnerable to such thougths of life. Its normal to behave in such a way.....but the actions which take place in such
a wild flow of emotions or hormones can make things disgusting and a person realizes this later.......man you need to concentrate and do it hard. doing anything at first hand willl help you .practice yoga .....chanting of OM.
@sidddd (857)
• India
10 Feb 07
Yeah every college students first love is teacher but i think that what you did was correct but she gave you a slap,thats weird and how the hell she did to you and also i think that before she could do anything you must have kissed her and then she would have been in a shame and at last she will be in a shame in the whole class.cheers!!!
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Your teacher did not get you right. Students usually get this feeling of getting infatuated with their teacher because they get smitten by the way they teach. Teachers nowadays understand this behavior in their students. They talk to their students about this, explain the situation to the infatuated student, and the student usually get by knowing that the teacher has acknowledged the feeling but in no way can the teacher give it back. The student usually grow out of it as later on he sees the teacher to be too old for him/her and someone among his/her peers catches his attention and there goes the deviation of the feeling.
Don't worry about the situation you are in now. Later on, you will understand that you made the wrong move when you told your teacher that you love her. It will be better if you approach her and tell her how sorry you are about everything. It will do you much good if you'd tell her that what you meant by that was you admire very much her way of teaching. If you cannot do this yourself ask for your mom's help on this regard. After that, it is best that the incident will be forgotten.
