Does marriage counceling work?

Philippines
February 10, 2007 5:41am CST
I wanted my friend go over this. they are having realtionship problems & i dont want them to break up. i pity their child. does this work?
3 people like this
5 responses
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
10 Feb 07
If the two people are willing then it can work. Even if one goes then they are better taught to deal with the problems just beginning by becoming a single parent. The child's interests should be the first thing on eveyones minds since the kid really has the most at stake.
2 people like this
@mikekire (146)
• Nigeria
10 Feb 07
Yes it works if she will put the outcome of the counselling to practice.The problem is they might go but will not carry out what the counsellor tells them. I believe in talking things over. Dialogue is all they need. If people will learn to say sorry and mean it, there would be no problems in relationshipn.
2 people like this
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
10 Feb 07
i feel that marriage counseling will only work if the two people are willing to attend the sessions and work together to try and make things better. They also need to listen to the counselor and the advice that is given to them in order to turn their marriage around. It is really up to the two people to make the counseling work for them and have a wonderful marriage again.
• United States
10 Feb 07
Under only one condition. Both people have to be willing and open minded to the process. That is rarely the case, unfortunately. One person has usually already made up their mind at this point. I feel for the child as well. If they can't go through counseling, then the best thing for them is to be civil for their child's sake.
1 person likes this
@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
Yes, sometimes it will work to arrange and clear marriage trouble.