What is more important? personality or physical attraction?
By chewydoll
@chewydoll (86)
Philippines
10 responses
@zugedanit (1958)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
I think it is the personality. Having a good personality are having a good physical attraction. If you have a good physical attraction but your personality is not good, it is nothing and useless. A good personality is beautiful.
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@chewydoll (86)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
Agreed, you have a point. One might have an appealing perception to make a good look to the person possessing an excellent personality. But in cases, where people had changed, personalities likewise changed. I guess both should be balanced in one's person. It so awkward to think that if one has the negative values one would be surely satisfying.
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@matanjing130905 (112)
• Indonesia
10 Feb 07
Deep inside my heart and one hundred percent really true i want to say to you that i have both of it. Not just that but i have one more thing that you wouldn't believe to said this even it's true,,
"just kidding and i just want to say good night to you and have a good sleep.." gags..gags..gags..
:D
i choose personality because we can change physical attraction with technology(surgery, make up, daily body care etx..) but not with personality.
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@chewydoll (86)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
But there are certain circumstances that personalities are shaped. And it doesn't mean for all that if one has the attractive physical look, he dont have the right personality.
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@julialaurene0206 (1262)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
honestly both are important to me, personality is the most one but it always to consider the looks of someone.
@slavezero (833)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
i guess in a long term relationship, personality matters more. When you established a good personality toward someone, everything follows. Physical attraction always has the limit,of course physically.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
10 Feb 07
Honestly, I would want a person with a great personality. They could look like qusimoto but if they have the personality to shine through, then you tend to forget about looks. I have seen many beautiful people who were ugly inside because of their lack of personality. In my younger days i would have said "looks" But the older you get , the wiser you become.
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@chewydoll (86)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
Great idea! but probably most people with attractive physical looks likewise possesses the kind of personality matched to the type of appeal and looks they hold.
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@amgine (225)
• Philippines
15 May 07
personality is more important, although of course as you say it, you will want to wake up each morning to someone you're at least physically attracted to. however, i picked personality since passion and beauty will eventually fade, at the end of the day you will want to share your life with someone you love talking to.
@julialaurene0206 (1262)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
honestly both are important to me, personality is the most one but it always to consider the looks of someone.
@ladyjava (1184)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 07
To me whilst physical attraction might be good in a relationship, it alone might not be a sustaining factor for the relationship. To me, i would choose personality first coz that would last forever. Looks might not.
@easyzheng (666)
• China
15 May 07
I always think a person's personality is a very important part that might draw attention of others and valued higher than the other things. But I also found that depends on different ages and different kind of people. In most cases, more value is put on one appearance instead of his inner quolity. Anyway, for aged people, personality is the top quolity that people appreciate.
