How do you know when your in love?
By candyzone
@candyzone (63)
Malaysia
February 10, 2007 10:04pm CST
I have liked my best friend for a while now and every time i am with him something sparks in the inside. When i think about i start smiling, when he looks into my eyes i can't help but feel bad when i blink because i feel like when i blink thirty minutes of my time with him has passed. when i hear his voice from across the classroom i get so nervous. when he stares at me or try to get my attention, i try to keep my cool but my heart keeps pounding. when we are together all i wanna do is talk to him and not stop. and then when i see him with other girls i get mad and jealous. and i feel like pulling him away from them.and when he hugs me i feel like i am in the arms of a God. i know this my best friend but i cant help it. is it just lust? or love? help please.
5 responses
@sum_19 (56)
• India
12 Feb 07
Dear friend....make sure first that you are in love. I do believe that i am in love too. it's not just lust or infatuation. Well coming to your point it's true that when people are in love, a small remembrance of it makes them smile. People in love really get nervous on hearing their love's voice like you. When we are in love our heart is not in our control and it keeps pounding always. When our love is near our heart pounds harder and harder. I also want to talk to my love non stop. I too feel jealous and become angry when other boys look at her. I don't know anything about you two so i am not sure about your love. But you are quite near to it. It seems that you are in love.
One more thing i want to tell you is that i sometimes cry in dreams calling out her name. This is the main reason why i think that i am really in love. Do you have any such strong point which makes you believe that you are in love...???
@mohitkr05 (46)
• India
11 Feb 07
Dear candy there is a huge difference between love and lust.When you are in love you love spending time with the person not only that you wish that he or she may live near you whole yor life.In lust thats not the case.Lust is just physicall while love is just from heart.You love spending time with him you are in love Go and tell that to him i am sure he will not deny.Bye all the best.ANd congrats you are in love dear.
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@axe_effect (799)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
make it sure that it is really love that ur feeling.. hehe.. dont make mistakes.. good luck girl!
@kasmene (34)
• Italy
19 Feb 07
Ahaha probably you r in love but remember,
your best friend is not sure will be the best boyfriend u can meet.
Normally our best friend has all we want in a boy/girlfriend, but only becasue is not in the position of so, for him/her, no problem to give us the right answer, the right advise, make the right thing everyday.
So if u think u r in love, why not to try, but keep in your mind the possibility to loose him both like boyfriend and friend.
Good luck and enjoy!!!!!
P.S. if u will not find the way send me an email, so i will try to become at first your best friend and then your boyfriened of course eheheheh.
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
if you are confuse with our advises then i would suggest that you get your feet wet and i know that is the only way for you to know. if you are that daring enough to make some move to confirm if you are in love or not.nowadays, it is ok for a woman to ask a man out for a cup of coffee or lunch and get to know one another without being so formal about it , it is just likw hanging out. i am not saying that you have to sleep with him. do it asexually.
