Should Allowances Be Tied To Household Chores?

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I am just wondering how many parents think allowances should be tied to the chores that their children do? My husband thinks a child should only be given an allowance so long as they do their chores and I believe that a child's allowance should have nothing to do with their household chores. My husband's view is that by tying the allowance to the chores, it makes sure that the child will do the chores every day so that at the end of the week that child will get the allowance. Also, he thinks the amount should be set with no increases until the child is of an age to work at which time the allowance goes away and if the child wants money he has to get a job. My view is that chores are a contribution the household. Evry member of a household has certain responsibilities to the running of and upkeep of the house. Therefor chores must be done no matter what. By tying the allowance to the chores, we teach our children that everything we do must have a price. I don't want to teach that to my son. I also believe that allowance amounts should be determined by the child's age and should increase accordingly. I also do not think that allowances should be stopped once a child reaches a working age. I personally would rather continue to give my child an allowance while he is in school than send him off to work at 16 so he can have money, but his grades suffer. Currently, I give my son $5 every two weeks. He can spend it anyway that he wants after putting 10% in his savings account. I figure that as a member of the family he is entitled to some of the household money. Also, by letting him determine what he buys, he is learning how to manage his money. I think that as he gets older he should get more money every two weeks until he tops out at $50. I think that as children get older they need more money for things. I remember getting an allowance and it increase every couple of years. My parents felt that I needed to have enough money to buy at least a happy meal every two weeks. As I got older my needs changed so my allowance got larger. I mean, is it really fair to give a 14 yr old $10 for an allowance and then expect that child to go to the movies with friends and pay their own way? No. At 14, the allowance should be enough to at least get into the movies and buy a coke. How do other parents feel about allowances? I would like to get input on this so my hubby and I can stop arguing about it. Thanks.