what will you do if your mother told you that you must deforce your wife?

I honestly think that in a husband/wife relation nobody should interfeer. You two are the one involved and you are the one who know exactly how you feel about your relation. If your mother doesn't like your wife you can ask her why and try to ask what your wife thinks about it so they can work things out. Ask your wife to be patient and understanding with the situation. Maybe your mother is going through some phase of stress. You don't explain why your mother doesn't like your wife, and if you still love your wife. Even though I think that talking peacefully is a good start. You can tell your mother you love your wife and that you love her too. Make her understand that if she loves you she would want you to be happy. Also keep in touch a lot with your mother. Sometimes mothers just feel lonely and jelaous of their big boys. Good luck

Wll I'm a wife and I know my husband won't do that to me just because his mother doesn't like me. He has been betrayed 4 times and I have never betrayed him for 6 yrs of our marriages, so I know he wouldn't just divorce me out of the blue. I would the same if I were in his shoe. As a grown up man you should be able to know the real reasons why your mother didn't like your wife. It's not impossible that you have contributed to their bad relationships, may be things you and your wife did in the past and your mother thought it was your wife's doing. Also maybe your mother heard what your wife does outside, and so she doesn't like her. If you have kids then it's even more important for you to know the real reason why. Good luck.

if my husband told me this i would give him an ultimatum, me or her then let him make his mind up blessed be