Have you ever loved someone and they didnt know?

i don't hold anything back personally.... and sometimes that can get me into trouble... I can be mean sometimes, unintentionally and when i'm done i am soo sorry for doing it, and i can tell people nerve racking things, like i did my husband when i knew i wanted to be with him, in asking him to be the father of my babies, it just comes out, and i don't mean to most of the time... but it happens... I never regret anything, because first off it doesn't get you anywhere, and second of all what you do is what you need to do, but sometimes i do wish i would have worded things differently... Maybe not in the case of my husband, but with friends especially.... Ash...

Well I think you know me or at least my personality well enough to know that I never hold back on anything. But in this situation it may shock you to know that I may be a little reserved in my actions. I have had crushes on guys and was unable to tell them because of fear of rejection. I have had strong feelings for friends. But when it came to confronting those feelings I always opted to not risk losing a friendship. Sometimes a person has to look at the big picture before acting. I'm sure through the years I have missed out on a great relationship by being this way. But at one time in my life I actually believed it was better to be safe then sorry.

Yeah i have / do loved someone but am afraid of telling her, because first of all, she supposedly has a boyfriend (I dont know what happened between them), she is one of my best friends and i dont want to ruin that, and I dont know if she likes me too. Plus, I dont want the whole school going around saying that I confessed and she refused/accepted and stuff. Then my parents would find out and get mad since they dont believe that teens should be dating.

I was too busy finding out if that person felt the same way

Oh yes...sounds very familiar!!!! I guess I never told anybody that I was in love with him before making sure the other person had feelings for me too. I guess it was the fear of looking like an idiot or something like that... I guess I was always afraid of the answer, getting "no" as an answer, I mean. Pretty stupid, perhaps...but well, that's how it was back then. Now, I'm happily married.

i did. we were friends and i guess, our friendship is more important to me than myself that time. surely if you put love between friendship, sometimes, it ruins everything. and honestly i still wonder upto now what if...

yeh therez this guy....i met thru the net....but that was 5 yrs ago...!! now we are the best of friends...and i can and do share everything with him!! hez very easy 2 talk to....and fun too!! but i only realized last yr...that ive started to like him...as in realy like him!! but i still havnt said anythin!! i think it might ruin our friendship...or mayb he might think im just kiding...as i already hav a bf!!!! gosh im a mess!!!