Ok, for a man to cry?

@pontgtp (967)
United States
October 12, 2006 12:59pm CST
Is it ok for a man to cry?
23 responses
• United States
13 Oct 06
Yes, man can cry or they wouldn't be human. It does not lessen a mans manhood or ability to take care of , protect and provide for his family.
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
13 Oct 06
thanks for saying that
• United States
12 Oct 06
Of course, to cry is to show emotion. I have made my hubby cry on occasion. it's rare but it brings us closer each time! Go ahead, be a man and let out a few tears! I bet you'll feel better.
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
13 Oct 06
wow, thanks
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
12 Oct 06
Yes it's fine for a man to cry. Too many men think that they cant cry because they are men and they are supposed to be tough and emotionless, but holding in your feelings will just make more problems! I dont think anything is wrong with a man showing emotions!
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
12 Oct 06
all you people are really, cool
@vipul20044 (5793)
• India
12 Oct 06
Humans are free to express their feelings it isnt that women are more emotional and men arent it is usually that women like to show their tears and men brood within themselves!
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
12 Oct 06
another intelligent resonse, thank you
@Nivedha (617)
• India
12 Oct 06
why not.Everyone has the right to express themselves.
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
12 Oct 06
:)
• India
12 Oct 06
yes it is perfectly ok for a mn 2 cry man also has emotions
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
13 Oct 06
thanks
@LBS1178 (317)
• United States
12 Oct 06
I think its fine for men to cry. Its human nater to happen. If they are crying all the time it might be a problem, but crying ok
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
12 Oct 06
wow, all the great answers thanks everyone!
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
13 Oct 06
for sure its ok.some parents seem to tell there boys its not ok.what a mistake i grew up like that and i find i cant cry so when it comes to greveing it makes life very hard and it takes ages to recover.i wish i could sit down and have a good cry from time to time
@luckiest (282)
• Malaysia
13 Oct 06
Sure! What's wrong?
@srhelmer (7029)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
13 Oct 06
I think it's fine for men to cry and admit I have on occassion. But, men, in general are raised to believe otherwise.
• United States
12 Oct 06
I see know reason why a man shouldn't be able to cry. crying is a way of showing emotions and everyone is entitled to that whether they be a man or a woman.
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
12 Oct 06
thank you also
• United States
12 Oct 06
Definently. Men need to release emotion as much as women do. Men need to see that it doesn't make you "weak" or anything like that. If anything, you are more of a man for being comfortable enough with yourself to express yourself honestly instead of hiding it all away out of fear of what others will think.
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
12 Oct 06
There are some really caring,nice people in here
@pearce (35)
• United States
12 Oct 06
Why wouldn't it be? I understand that men by nature are different than woman, but we have certainly seen a few men cry in public. I have certainly lost some friends and relatives and have cried over them. I don't cry over sad movies and that type of stuff, but I don't see why men wouldn't cry at a time of loss.
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
12 Oct 06
there are some really open minded people in here
@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
12 Oct 06
Absolutely. I don't know why a man should be less human than a woman. It's not a sign of weakness to show your emotion.
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
12 Oct 06
thank you for responding
• United States
12 Oct 06
It's fine, because all men have emotions and they are not always like a rock hearted all the time, for us (men), we will cry for serious reasons like if I lost someone that I love or more serious than that... we have emotions and feelings, we do cry like everyone else.
@sunrisekn (1466)
• United States
13 Oct 06
Sure it is ok for a man to cry. It shows me that he is sensitive and caring.
@reader (707)
• India
13 Oct 06
ss in certain situations
• United States
12 Oct 06
Yes. But not often.
• United States
13 Oct 06
I think men should cry more often. It is refreshing. I think I have seen my husband cry twice. Once while singing the national anthem and once while at a christian quartet concert.
• United States
13 Oct 06
Of course it is, men are human too. Wouldn't it be wrong to deny them the right to outwardly express emotion? I don't believe I would want to kno a man who isn't in touch with his feelings, I don't see how he could be an effective friend/lover.