What every husband should know?
By jrs404
@jrs404 (32)
Philippines
February 12, 2007 2:00am CST
I attended a workshop on 'What every wife should know?' One thing I cannot forget from it is that wife should always be your husband's mistress. Act like a mistress - smell good, look good, treat your husband like a king, be affectionate, be passionate, be like a mistress. Then, your husband won't go looking for other woman.
Now, for the wives, what do you think should every husband should know to keep the fire burning, to have a successful and happy married life?
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11 responses
@essilem (286)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
Every husband should know that a woman even how busy she is with all the housework, tending to kids and all the chores is will never pass up a chance to have a good back massage. Flowers mean a lot too, especially if it coupled with a bar of chocolate. Every husband should never take their wives for granted, and that they should at least show their appreciation in all the little things she does even around the house. Every husband should know that a wife needs even just a few hours of "me" time, waya from it all, it could even be just a short trip to the salon.
@yaneeps (122)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
i think that the husbands should know how to take home the bacon but at the same time, must spend quality time with his family. He should also flirt with his wife and respect her decisions in the household. But i believe that the hubby should be a God-fearing man because if he fears God, he wouldn't let himself astray.
@ZoeAnne05 (43)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
Hey, I seem to be forgetting that part about acting like a mistress. Well, for the husbands...I believe they should always remember to be that knight in shining armor no matter how old-fashioned that sounds. Treat us like a lady, whisper sweet nothings, surprise us with flowers or a date. Uhm, am I asking too much?
@mommydiaries (191)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
I believe that every husband should remember that ehile there is an US (husband and wife tandem), there is a ME. Every wife needs to maintain her individuality in order to be happy. He needs to give his wife room to breathe, grow, have fun. By doing so, he helps her become a better part of the HUSBAND+WIFE=US equation
@selina0625 (1379)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
The husband should be the same person as he was the day his wife accepted his proposal or even better. What I mean to say is that the qualities that mafe us fall inlove with our husbands should not vanish, moreover they shou;d strive to be better person for us and our familiy.
@beautifulceiling (1300)
• United States
12 Feb 07
While those things are nice to do, they're not the foundation for a solid relationship. They focus too much on the superficial. And many men will cheat even if they're with a perfectly groomed supermodel who caters to their every whim. When people cheat it's because they choose to. It isn't the fault of the spouse they're cheating on. Real love isn't about appearance or sucking up to your spouse.
I think husbands and wives would be better served by focusing on listening to each other, caring deeply about each other's needs, communicating, and all those other things that you mentioned will flow naturally from that.
@VAnnasamy (426)
• India
12 Feb 07
Now the trend is changing even in India. Wife and Husband go together, earn and interact to a great extent. Gone are days, wives being 'yes boss' to their hubbies.
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
12 Feb 07
Listen to you. Talk with you. Even if you find it uninteresting, devote a few minutes every day listening to your wives troubles, her day, her opinions.
Plan a monthly date night.