Please help me out
By prakashrishu
@prakashrishu (147)
India
6 responses
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Have a definite aim or goal in your life; live in the present; develop healthy relationships; help others; be creative; take advantage of the internet i.e chatsites, discussions sites, online gaming etc; volunteering; travel; do online seminars or take up an evening class in something you would ejoy doing; ..there are lots of things you could do to avoid loneliness.
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@sonnet (164)
• South Korea
15 Feb 07
I was going to respond in my own post but after reading this I feel it sums up a lot of what I was going to say. There are many options to avoid loneliness and a lot of it depends on your personal attitude towards life in general. Be positive minded and open yourself up to new experiences and opportunities. You cannot force a friendship or relationship, it takes time to build naturally.
@prakashrishu (147)
• India
15 Feb 07
I am very much impressed by your reply...Thanx a lot that i can say to you...
@prakashrishu (147)
• India
12 Feb 07
thanx for ur 10000000000000000$ suggestion but is it possible in real life... i dont think so...
@prakashrishu (147)
• India
12 Feb 07
Oye Shekhar ye to mai Dips ko likha tha waise tera suggestion bilkul practical hai aur wahi mai kar raha hu
@sweetdove (14)
• South Africa
12 Feb 07
Well, this is a tricky one.I'm tempted to say get a pet, or get married or have kids, but this won't necessarily solve the problem of being lonely. Your pet may die, your spouse may leave you, or be too engrossed in thier own lives to be 100% available to you, and your children will definately grow up and find thier own path, what then? In my opinion, being lonely is not necessarily being alone - you can be surrounded by people and still be lonely! Being comfortable with yourself and enjoying your own company, is a good step towards escaping loneliness, because there are no guarantees that the people in your life will stay forever!
@sweetdove (14)
• South Africa
12 Feb 07
well, this a tricky one. I am temptedto say, get a pet, or spouse or have children, but when it comes to the nitty-gritty of it, loneliness is not necessarily being alone - you can be surrounded by pople and still feel lonely. Your pet may die, your husband/wife might leave, or even be too busy with life to be 100% available. I will say that its important to be comfortable with one's self and enjoying one's own company.