Please help me out

India
February 12, 2007 2:45am CST
What is the best solution to avoid loneliness?
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6 responses
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Have a definite aim or goal in your life; live in the present; develop healthy relationships; help others; be creative; take advantage of the internet i.e chatsites, discussions sites, online gaming etc; volunteering; travel; do online seminars or take up an evening class in something you would ejoy doing; ..there are lots of things you could do to avoid loneliness.
@sonnet (164)
• South Korea
15 Feb 07
I was going to respond in my own post but after reading this I feel it sums up a lot of what I was going to say. There are many options to avoid loneliness and a lot of it depends on your personal attitude towards life in general. Be positive minded and open yourself up to new experiences and opportunities. You cannot force a friendship or relationship, it takes time to build naturally.
• India
15 Feb 07
I am very much impressed by your reply...Thanx a lot that i can say to you...
@dipima (172)
• India
12 Feb 07
Imagine yourself being surrounded by all your dreams and desires. Then try to visualise them in reality. Finally make plans for them one by one. Believe me you'll never feel lonely....
• India
12 Feb 07
thanx for ur 10000000000000000$ suggestion but is it possible in real life... i dont think so...
• India
12 Feb 07
Oye Shekhar ye to mai Dips ko likha tha waise tera suggestion bilkul practical hai aur wahi mai kar raha hu
@shekharj (296)
• India
12 Feb 07
If u feel lonely, do one thing-sit in front of your p.c. and log onto Mylot.com. I garantee u'll never feel lonely as frind like me is always there for u! Isn't that?
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
12 Feb 07
to avoid being lonely, then you should always try to be around someone else. I wish i had some alone time! i will trade you.
• India
12 Feb 07
Thanx for your beautiful reply...
@macky7 (317)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
if you want to avoid loneliness you can look for someone to talk to, a friend or family. if there is none, you could do something to kill time. try to read a book or watch tv.
• South Africa
12 Feb 07
Well, this is a tricky one.I'm tempted to say get a pet, or get married or have kids, but this won't necessarily solve the problem of being lonely. Your pet may die, your spouse may leave you, or be too engrossed in thier own lives to be 100% available to you, and your children will definately grow up and find thier own path, what then? In my opinion, being lonely is not necessarily being alone - you can be surrounded by people and still be lonely! Being comfortable with yourself and enjoying your own company, is a good step towards escaping loneliness, because there are no guarantees that the people in your life will stay forever!
• South Africa
12 Feb 07
well, this a tricky one. I am temptedto say, get a pet, or spouse or have children, but when it comes to the nitty-gritty of it, loneliness is not necessarily being alone - you can be surrounded by pople and still feel lonely. Your pet may die, your husband/wife might leave, or even be too busy with life to be 100% available. I will say that its important to be comfortable with one's self and enjoying one's own company.