Wy do people feel more hurt when offended by a loved one?
@silgreat4real (9)
Nigeria
February 12, 2007 3:24am CST
I have really search this out and i found out that it hurt most when offended ny someone you hold dearly. I don't think there is any medical science that can really explain this. I have been a victim of this so many times.Many a times i feel like not having a best friend or even fall in love.But i have come to understand this one thing that,even if you don't need people,people needs you to be there friend or loved one.Whether we one believe this or not,it is true and undeniable.Two people will offend you,say , one is your love one and the other a passerby or someone you know but not so dear to you:you find out that you can easily let the offence of this other person go but that of your loved one keep on lingering.It has more shock on you.I have asked people but they just can't explain why they felt that way.
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@lastcrush2003 (379)
• India
12 Feb 07
yes you are wright my freind, even the same experince i have too..may be our loved one we start to give them importance and faith more than our self. which after breaking makes ur weak and unable to make up for some time
@silverflower (519)
• Pakistan
12 Feb 07
In most of the times they just lose hope in everything and just give it away but some one dare start life again from a new way.
@jtmblossom (470)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
I easily get hurt when my loved one would offend me because of the attachment i have with them. The more you are attached with the person the more you get hurt.