who takes care of the relationship?man or woman?

well if only one of the two is taking care of the relationship then i think there must not be much of a relationship it takes two to tango doesnt it ?

Both have the responsibility to make their love grow and flourish. It always takes two to tango. A mutual relationship is built to last forever.

i agree with you, we're great in keeping the relationship and making it work. i just wish men dont take us for granted!

It should be both, wife and husband... cos this is 2 side relationship, not just one side...

Well.... I tend to disagree a little here..... You cannot clap with one hand.... Similarly a woman alone cannot take care of a relationship all by herself.... Give teh poor guy some credit.... Carrying of a relationship requires both the partners to understand each other.... spare time..... emotions.... You think that a woman alone by doing that can make a relationship work..... Then thats an illusion you are harbouring... coz such relationships hit thr storm often and can/will break up sooner or later... The truly succesful relationship, ahs both the man and woman invest a lot in the relationship... They are essentially two separate individuals..... different ways of saying teh same thing...... different implications when saying teh same words... e.g. : "I'm fine"..... This has different connotations when a lady says it and when a man speaks it out!! If either of them fails to understand the implied meaning there, do you think they can rectify this fault in other spheres?? In case, they can't can the relationship work? The effort involved might be a true point of debate or even discussion...... but not who takes care of a realtionship!! I rest my case!! Cheerio!!