setting free: would you do this?

Well you dont really have a choice dont you , first you can do for yourself is treat yourself and do things to get your mind of it, you might cry at times it's ok just dont breakdown and be strong especially in front of them.

Well...... This is a very painful situation to start with.... But, if the person you love, loves someone else, to let go him/her is the wisest thing to do..... It'll hurt, but it would even more to have person around, and love someone else..... Remember: "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours forever, if it doesn't it never was!!"

yes.. that's what you call love... that your willing to set him free because you know that he'll/she'll be happy even you're not part of that happiness.. i know it's easier to said than done but what's the use of keeping him if you know your just both killing yourself in pain, yes i pain because you both will be hurt in this situation...

I did this 6 years ago I was married 10 years when my now ex had another girlfriend and wanted to live with her. I moved out and took my kids and he married her. He is now divorced from her too!

I honestly would. In fact, weird as it may sound, my partner and I have talked about it and came up with an agreement.

of course i would. had you asked me three years back the answer would be no. but since this question came in just now, the answer is a whopping yes. i mean what's the use of holding on when the one you're trying to hold on to is shaking you off already. or doesn't show the same amount of effort your dying to put out. really, if the feeling is not reciprocated, maybe its just not meant to be. ^_^

Yes I wont hold him back for my own selfish reasons as niether he nor me will be happy. I wont allow myself to ruin three lives , if I let him go atleasdt that person will be happy and I will be happy thinking that I made him happy ionm my own small way may be he will never realise it but I did what lovers should do= the right thing

yes i would definitely set him FREE! if theres really nothing i could do to keep him to myself. but as much as possible i would do something first to prove him how much i love him and need him and ask him what i did to make his love for me dissapear. i would not give up easily at first he needs to prove me if he's happy with what he choose.

I would wonder why he was with me if he already loved someone else. But if I found out that he was in love with someone else, I would let him go. If he is miserable stuck with me, then most likely everyone near him is going to miserable also.

If i were to know that my girl friend had a previous affair and if she had not confessed it to me, I would never mind kicking her off the relationship.