who would you prefer your family or your girlfriend?

I feel a girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife is someone you meet along your path of life wereas your family has been there all your life.I don't think giving up family is proof of love.Society is constanly changing and so do people.If your friend gives up his family to prove his love for that girl,what else will she require him to give up, his life?his freedom?his job? i don't think so.If this girl truly loves your friend she will accept him and his family. I feel blessed and priviledged to be in the family i have and would never give them up simply to please someone else. That person might disappoint me or even hurt me and it is in such times(and other times) that i will need my family.

it depends.... but as much as possible, i'd consider my family first.