If you found out your spouse was cheating on you and it was provable
By AnnaB87
@AnnaB87 (761)
United States
February 12, 2007 8:04am CST
would you cheat on them, leave or just pretend like you did not know?
What if you justsuspected your spouse was cheating what would you do?
Is it better to just ignore someone that is or may be doing something like this?
Or better to confront them and see if they tell you. Also if they do tell you they are cheating what would you do?
WOuld you try to work things out or just leave?
3 responses
@Camellia_Sinensis (93)
• Australia
12 Feb 07
I would confront them. And then most likely leave. Talking to them, not revenge would be the best way for me to get closure.
@AnnaB87 (761)
• United States
12 Feb 07
That is sorta the way I think.
Anyway my husband is not like that but my sister on the other hand seems to have a habit of finding men like this.
She has been married twice, and is currently going thru another divorce.
And she was with someone for a number of years that started cheating, and she still talks to him, and goes to see him.
I just don't understand why people want to be mean to each other.
@LoveMyGuinness (69)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Talking to him I guess is the best way to solve stuff like this. I know that if I keep stuff to myself, anything that bothers me, the day comes when I can't deal with that anymore and I end up perhaps putting an end to the relationship out of nowhere. Sharing what you don't like I guess is the best way to handle relationships.
@shinichi31 (126)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
i'll kick his a#@...i don't deserved it... you shouldn't allow anybody to hurt you even it is your husband... you need to respect and love yourself first before you learn to love other...if i found it... i'll talk with him still give him the benefit of the doubt but when i found that it's true, the next thing would be hard for him... if he'll choose me then he have to gain my trust again...
