What do you do when you have a flirtatious friend?
@Yvonnenguyen819 (14)
United States
February 12, 2007 8:45am CST
Hi,
A friend of mine has a very flirtatious personality, she is also married. She would flirts toward every guy. It doesn't matter if the guy is married or single. She also does that to my husband. This bothers me because her actions are very misleading, but my husband said that she does that because she has a very outgoing personality. However, I disagree. What do you think? Does anyone has a friend like that? And what do you do if you were in my situation? I think if I were to talk to her about this she would just think that I am jealous of her, which I am not. Any advice? Thanks..
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@lifeis2good (1183)
• United States
12 Feb 07
If I were you I would definitely sit down with her and explain to her how you feel about this. I am not surprised by what your husband said - as that is what most men would say - men just don't get it!!! There is a huge difference between being an outgoing person and being a outright flirt!!! As a woman I am sure you get what I mean!!!
If she is a true friend then you should be able to chat with her about this and share how you feel and she should be able to accept that as well as share how she sees the situation - she might be one of those that doesn't understand that she is actually flirting when she might think that she is just being nice. And since she is married - I know I would definitely want to know if any of my friends thought I was flirting with anyone - cause when you are married - that's just wrong to do!!!
Hopefully your friend can be open enough to listen to you and see your point!!!
