Marrying or alone forever

Indonesia
February 12, 2007 10:47am CST
My age 27 year, and me thirst for marry but i have no work which its fair to middling salary. More than anything else i come from countryside and form impecunious family. Solution of brothers and sisters very meaning for me. Apologize if my sentence not fully correct, because i don;t have education
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17 responses
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
I do really relate to your question.And for me to tell you i even made it as a Quotation in my own room. "To marry or not to marry!" I'm 23 years of age and as of now i'm wondering if i really want to marry or to live a single life all the rest of my life. But as i think of it one thing also comes into my mind. That is, what if i enter a religious life... The question will last 'till the right warning appears to me... To be single is a great choice, but you must stood still to what singles should do. To marry is also a great choice. Both are equal in weight because all of which requires responsibility and obligation---morally and spiritually. "It's tough to stay single in this world where everybody expects you to be with somebody but staying single doesn't mean you have no choice but rather making a very important decisions."_naiveathan
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• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
When have to determine couple live really a complicated decision, however if determining for life alone in the reality is not easy to. Nowadays leaving over at heart is hesitating
• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
When have to determine couple live really a complicated decision, however if determining for life alone in the reality is not easy to. Nowadays leaving over at heart is hesitating
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
13 Feb 07
It is observed that many unmarried people, if not all, go into depression after certain age and be cranky. Moreover you need a companion of your own with whom you can share your inner thoughts and who can take care of you. It is a pleasure to have children and see them grow. So marry a person who willingly marries you and lead a contented life.
• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
In fact I also thirst for to be married to have child and child married finally have grandchild. However problem of me now is the who is woman which can accept if just for invited to live in underprivilegedly. I am only don;t wish one who i love have to feel burden which i experience of.
• India
13 Feb 07
hey you can marry someone' dont hesitate to marry' okay' dont feel negatively and try to feel like positive' the god is with us'
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• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
every sure boy wish to be married by someone loved. but the who is
@yana0806 (565)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
Don't pity your self too much! Learn to survive....Try to have job! Goodluck to you.... It's not good to be alone forever!
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• Indonesia
13 Feb 07
but work like what can be done, if not have education
• United States
13 Feb 07
Welcome I understand you! I hope marriage comes your way there is nothing like Love!
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• Indonesia
13 Feb 07
Thank you
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
It's a matter of choice. Choose where you can be happy. If you love someone and wants to get married, why not! If not, then stay happy being single.
• Indonesia
13 Feb 07
taking choice not easy to, if just a little of mistake hence will regret forever and ever
@anup12 (4177)
• India
14 Feb 07
You maybe able to stay now in your young age without marrying anyone.But you see in the old age you will feel very lonely and there will be nobody around you.That time you will feel the need for somebody to take care of you.
• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
but to tell to woman "i love you, do you like to marry me". I not ready to tell that. Is me wrong
@sioux2u (176)
• United States
12 Feb 07
hi there welcome, i had 4 brothers three sisters
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• Indonesia
12 Feb 07
same like me, but i had 4 sisters and 1 brothers, and firs child me which must hold responsible to family, I still confuse.
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@BlaKy2 (1475)
• Romania
13 Feb 07
i think that there is someone for everybody. The big problem is to find your soul mate. I think love can came at any age so i am not with the alone forever thing.
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
For me marrying is good because it will bind you and your love as one. And you and your loveone can help each other to face all obstacles that will come your way. Welcome to mylot. Hope you enjoy staying here. God bless.
• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
Marrying, likely like what. Sometimes my dream fly with small family but full smiling. but what is my dream it is possible that fact.
• China
14 Feb 07
Hi, welcome to mylot. Happy Valentines Day. My new friend. I want to tell you don't give up never, you will be success as long as hope in your heart.
• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
thank you, I will try with all ability which I have although is limited
@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Nobody but you can decide what is right for you. Some people are happier married. Some are happier single. I chose to be with someone, but it was the wrong someone. Now I choose to be alone, and am much happier. If you choose to get married, make sure you do it for the right reasons. Don't get married to the wrong person just because you want to be married. Make sure that the person you choose to marry is someone you truly want to spend the rest of your life with. If not, you will live to regret your choice. Your choice does not have to be made immediatly. Have you met someone that you are interested in? If not, take it one step at a time. Look around and see if maybe there is someone out there who you feel might be right for you. Don't push the whole marriage issue. If it feels right, you will know.
• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
In the reality take choice is not as easy as telling is "Easy". do taken time to think ?
@reaperz (1266)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Ok....now, why would you stay alone forever? Its kind of weird to image how you can stay alone foreve. Don't you want to feel loved and everything?
• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
I anxious for love and loved, but old age me which no i have never recognized woman to become girlfriend
• China
13 Feb 07
yes,it is nomal what you said. but you can be a success man,what you said today wiill be nervous
• Indonesia
13 Feb 07
Hopefully God Love always giude each, every my step.
@dhigambaram (1132)
• India
12 Feb 07
Ofcourse marriage yaar because .... i come in this world to enjoy everything so definatly i prefer marriage nd ...because i already stay 25 years alone to now i want some one to stay forever my life
• Indonesia
12 Feb 07
of course, I also wish marriage. but its problem now, do theres woman which will be invited marriage and after marriage will be invited hard life, and do us have the heart to see one who we love to follow to feel grief, if theres whom and where. Because a friend have told (woman in this time non searching handsome but well established)
@nuel_h (1592)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 07
wow, i guest ur indonesian! solusi dari saudara dan saudari? hmmm... nikah mah di tangan tuhan pak! welcome to mylot hope u enjoy your stay here and dont forget to give best response for people who really deserve it !!
• Indonesia
13 Feb 07
as downright as this is true the problem of person, inggrisna banyak yang salah ya, maaf lah. but i think just sharing, who knows there is solving of better. In reality is true business marry on-hand God but at least have to start where from to recognize woman, Do possible only by keeping silence hence will meet couple
@erl212 (303)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
its better to marry someone ou love forever than having no one in your life.
• Indonesia
12 Feb 07
to in this time to breathe even also likely oppress, more than anything else for other matter. i can play internet lik this time because night watch security in booth of internet is me