a widower

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if you had a friend that got married,and then you the lady had this soft spot for him.later he got married,after like a year,he lost his wife.not that you are happy his wife died,but now those feelings start coming back.would you push them aside or make him know you are still available? what would you consider before going ahead in this relationship? now,we talk like once a week,he calls.but i think he's trying to be careful,but definitely dont know the state of his heart,cos we are not in the same state.what should i do?move on or wait ?