afraid of commitements?
By andiruleu
@andiruleu (310)
United States
February 12, 2007 11:44am CST
okay... so i guess im dating this one girl.. and like most other girls ive dated.. this girl is getting more serious.. and i was wondering how people handle this situation. i mean usually break things off with other girls easily because they dont have the confidence to call me to hang out.. usually girls are the one that wait for the guy to call back.. but this girl, she's really aggressive and is the one that wants to hang out all the time and stuff.. i do like her.. but maybe i am afraid of things getting serious? or is it because i have dated so many girls that becoming bf/gf is not what im used to?
2 responses
@davaoguy (319)
• United States
12 Feb 07
You should be assessing yourself if you really wanted commitment at this point in your life. If indeed you're ready to hold on to a relationship, that's the time to think if this girl is worth your time. You should not judge her merely because she calls you. You should be judging if both your personalities fit or not.
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@andiruleu (310)
• United States
5 Mar 07
well i have started this topic awhile ago.. now i dont talk to that girl anymore.. happy :) haha
@Katrina901986 (405)
• Australia
12 Feb 07
I honestly think that you are afraid of getting hurt because of your other relationships, and afraid of things getting too serios too soon. I think maybe this one is because she is agressive and you are not used to it.
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