What Is Friendship? What do you think about it?
By cscsf88
@cscsf88 (66)
China
February 12, 2007 12:31pm CST
It is an in-depth relationship combining trust, support, communication, loyalty, understanding, empathy, and intimacy.
These are certainly aspects of life that all of us crave.
Being able to trust and relax with your friend is a big part of friendship.
Remember when you were young and went with a friend to her grandma's for the week-end. It was fun but when you got home, home was wonderful. Your feeling was "I'm home. I can relax now."
That's what a friendship should be.
You go out into the world and do your best. You have your ups and downs, your problems and triumphs, your fun and tribulations. You charm and you perform.
Then you come "home" to a friend. You can relax, put up your feet; you are relieved. If you still have to be charming and/or performing, it's not a relief.
Friendship is a comfy situation like home. You get home, kick off your shoes, relax and sigh, "Ahh, home."
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@qiuyishui1980 (220)
• China
13 Feb 07
hi,my friend.
I think True friends are the people who are there for you unconditionally. They are the people who never question you and support you no matter what the circustances are.
They are the people worth living for.
As other people said, "A good friend is someone who will help you when you are down, and if they can't, will lay down and listen."
Good luck to you.