Should we get mad if we learned that our partner has a crush on someone?
By oiixdaii
@oiixdaii (1059)
Philippines
10 responses
@meleshia (624)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
Personally, i think that's okay as long he don't act on it. I, myself, have crushes - be it movie star or a co-worker. But that's just it. A crush. There's nothing wrong with it as long as it stays like that. You can't control yourself from admiring someone, can you? That's just my two cents. =)
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@meleshia (624)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
yes, that's a really good motivation to go to work and enjoying in the workplace (but in a good, positive way). ^^ Like, last Wednesday, we had a fire drill here in the office and we had to go down the building through the fire escape -- that's 25 floors for us! whew! -- then on the 22nd floor, my crush went out and I was so glad to have seen him that i didn't mind going down the remaining 21 floors. haha!
@hiswillnotmywill (260)
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
i agree with only1Andrea, it all depends. I am a very jelous person and i don't like my partner liking or having a crush with anyone else. I feel that if you love a person she or he is the only pretty/handsome, sexy, wonderful person for you because you love her/him you are focused to her/him and there's no other person should catch your attention.
@answerguy (57)
• Canada
1 Mar 07
Well, jealousy is a natural part of love. The person you love is YOURS and you are THEIRS. It's completely natural to be jealous of a crush. In fact, when I can see my wife is a little jealous because I'm talking to a pretty girl, I like it because it tells me she wants me.
But a crush can just be thinking someone is good looking. That's fine in its innocence. The second someone starts even THINKING about anything else there's a problem. I totally believe that if you fantasize about it, you've done it. I am totally in love with my wife and to be honest I don't give a rat's @$$ what Jessica Beal looks like or Angelina Jolie... but that's me. It's cool to find someone attractive, just don't let your mind run with it because that in itself is cheating.
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@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
8 Mar 07
Its ok if that person is a movie star or some one that I do not know. Its just crush and I guess there's real nothing about it. I also have a crush on someone and my bofriend knows about it. All the same its ok with him, even if sometimes I tease him that I love that crush of mine, its just teasing and teasing just for fun.
@heeroyuri (14)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
i think it will be just fine, since its just a crush not actually having serious feelings towards the other person. i myself will admit that i do also have crushes on other persons. i'm pretty sure its just normal for you to admire people at work, on certain organizations that you belong, even if you just met the person once you see a good trait and pretty damn sure if he/she is sexy, good looking and inteligent.
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@redmoon (27)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
I guess it should be alright. But both you and your partner should know that this is just a simple infatuation and not something that will make you think twice of each other. I guess I'm just a jealous person by nature, but being too strict isn't good for relationships either.
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@Only1Andrea (796)
• United States
12 Feb 07
It all depends. I mean if it is a crush on a movie star or someone like that that they are most likely never in life going to meet then I wouldn't have a problem with that.
but if it is someone that they work with and it is a possiblity that they may act on the crush then I most certainly be upset about that.
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@carlaurens (188)
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
For me, it's ok coz it's only a crush, but he/she should limit this only up to crush no more than that because sometimes it only begin with crushes then you tends to develop into love..
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