Confused...

I often encounter that question. My friends and I used to debate and talk about it. In my own opinion, I rather go to the person who loves me given that the one I love doesn't love me back. Ofcourse, if the one I love loves me back then, that would be wonderful! No more dilemma but, I know it wasn't the case. I chose the one who loves me because I know that he won't leave me and he will take good care of me. I'll try my best to compensate by loving him back though it won't come out easy but I believe that as the days passed by it will just come out naturally. Why will I waste loving a person who doesn't even care about me when there is someone out there who is willing to love me with all his heart. Because of that person's love for me, I will be willing to give my heart to him. Let me give you another scenario: What if the time you've given your heart to the person who loves you, the one who loves you realized that he loves you too? What will you do? (",)

i will choose the one i love as i think no point trying to love someone that u don't actually love. the one who love me i can only say thanks n sorri..

confused!! sometimes, I want the one I love beside me, doing anything together, laugh together, and always spent time together with the one who loves me...I don't know, but sometimes, he always try to make me happy, with his love, he cares me, loves me, and don't want me crying

The person who loves me off course. Because if I choose the person whom I love then it may be the case that she might not like me. And then the relationship may become a kind of sacrifice. This type of relationship can't exist for a long time. And if I choose the one who loves me then I can also use to like her after some time. It will take some time but it won't matter much because a long running relationship is what I want to have. One can't clap with one hand only, both the hands are required for doing it. So the same way in a relationship, co-ordination is required from both the sides.

i will choose the one who loves me. everything could be learned by time. ii i were to choose as ive said so, the person who loves me. why? because he can take care of me and can love me... me? i used to be a good flatter when someone shows good to me. and so i better develope my feelings to someone who do love me than the one who i love but not sure if there's a feeling to come back.... a relationship must composed of two individuals with a two way relationship:give and take.. its cruel to love and not be loved, isnt it? at least if i will choose the one who love me,,, i know i can develope something in return and be happy.

If I were to choose the one who loves me or the one I love, I would surely prefer the one who loves me. I can be secured of his love for me. I can learn it from him how to love him in an abandoned way. He can show me how to and I can learn that. I would be happy to be that. I could never be secure if I marry the person I love. If he doesn't love me then i can never be sure of my place in this heart. So it is better that I marry a person ho loves me and not vice versa. All the best

i will choose first the one i love, then when things go wrong between two of us, i will try the next step by going after the one who loves me..