Am i crazy or is it alright to have a boyfriend and a girl friend?

As long as all parties involved agree there is no problem. If your girlfriend is opposed then it would be cheating.

If you've agreed to an exclusive relationship with your girlfriend, then there's something wrong with it only because you're breaking an agreement.

It could be fine, if both the others know of each others existence and importance to you. And if you don't (emotionally) force one of the two others into participating in the intimate part, so to speak... I am only wondering... do you really want that, or is it to start a new discussion, or is it because you think that this would be a 'cool'ish kind of thing? In other words... I am not convinced of your sincerity in this!

no.... I mean i don;t find anything wrong with it.... flirting if done properly and whole heartedly -- "BUT" lively and healthily can be a definite fun and excitement.... i dun find anything wrong with it..... perfectly fit and fine with me

I don't see anything wrong with it no, but it's the problem with the human jealusy (im tired and can't spell) but still ofcourse you can love several people at the same time. Polygam mariages should be more common.

Hell No.. if you have a BF, dont be a lesbian to have a girlfriend If you have a GF, dont be a gay to have a boyfriend. its as simple as it is,

just don't tell your significan other. you gots to get yours!

I think a relationship like that would be perfect, in a perfect world. . . but then again you would end up with a huge chain of boyfriends and girlfriends (because each of yours should have one of the other...) I don't think it would be right to have a boyfriend if your girlfriend has a problem with it.