Do you open you bf/gf cellphones?
By killersmile
@killersmile (75)
Philippines
11 responses
@certified_alice (1854)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
Yes I open my husbands cellphone because it is mine, hahaha. We share it because he goes to work and I stay at home with our daughter and having a telephone line with unlimited smart call is only I need to communicate with my friends and family. Sometimes, I check if there's some fishy text messages he got there so he must be careful hahaha. He's honest everytime there's a texter who he don't know and asks me if I do.
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
I used to. but i also used to get pissed off at what i saw. lol. So now, for my own sanity i do not. It's nothing that bad that i was seeing but i am jealous, so if i seen a picture with a girl he was talking to or something i would get so mad. and he wouldnt know why. and i didnt want to tell him why cause that would be admitting i was snooping. so i just think its better that i stopped.
@candyland (30)
• United States
13 Feb 07
In my opinion if you have to check up on them there is something they have done to loose your trust in the first place. I dont look at cell phones, wallets or anything personal. I dont want to spend that kind of negative energy trying to find something bad.
@goalkeeper (514)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
No i don't.If ever open it, i just want to play games or used for text messaging.I don't read some text message for her. For me it seem like i don't trust her..The good thing to my girlfriend is..she is honest to me, she always share those who send text message to her and ask my opinion.
@aerogal_ind (419)
• India
13 Feb 07
Like i dont have any boyfriend or something,but then even if i have one i wont be opening his cellphone without his knowledge ..If i really want to see his cellphone i would rather open it in front of him or atleast by asking his permission whether he would be comfortable if i do so..Everybody need their own privacy no matter how they are related to us:)
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
I do. I always check on his cellphone. Whenever we're together, he surrenders his cellphone to me, even before I ask for it. We never had an argument about this, it's because he understands. and it's not that I don't trust him, I just don't want to be cheated.
@anonymili (3138)
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13 Feb 07
I have never looked at my husband's phone - not now nor before we were married. Even if his phone rings and he's not in the room, I either ignore it to take it to him. I would not expect him to look at my phone if it rang or I received a text message. It's not that either of us has anything but we see it as something as private as an email or post addressed to us. I would never consider opening his post nor he mine. If you feel you have to sneak around to look at your partner's messages or details of incoming or outgoing phone call, then there must be serious trust issues in your relationship and you should ask yourself if you need to be in a relationship where there is so little trust. I hope this has gone someway to answering your question?