Proud to be single.... !!!!!!!!! are you sure??

India
February 13, 2007 8:03am CST
I have seen that some people say boldly that they are proud to be single !! Why they need to say it every time... everywhere... are they afraid of something?? OR they are running away from the fact that you are alone and desperately needed a life partner?? Are they afraid of relationship or the responsibility that follows ??
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@Starline (681)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I think that they are proud of being single, but since our society is so centered around couples and families, the singles have to sort of convince us that they are happy being single because we are so concent in our relationships that we forgot that it can actually be nice to be single and only care about yourself.
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• India
20 Feb 07
this is really a beautiful thinking... and the really liked the way you have put out your view !! I am also saying the same thing... there is no harm in staying single and enjoying the life... but if you are not enjoying the life staying as single then do accept the fact and vice versa... what you say??
@techsam (158)
• India
14 Feb 07
Proud to be single!! - Shows tom as proud as one can be when single!!
Proud to be Single?? Well, the people who try to emphasize this fact are kidding no one but themeselves. The truth is they are the ones who are in search of a partner, of finding they can hold on to, of finding what people term as true love..... more than anyone else!! The other category includes people who have been into a relationship got burned and are now seriously single, want to remain that way, though haven't been able to forget their past and still think "What if......"And the finally, the people who are simply totally scared of taking on the responsiblities that are associated with a relationship, scared of the emotional aspect of it, scared to commit!! if you are single its ok!! You still got some more days to smell the flowers....... If you are proud of it, let your actions speak, and don't blabber about!! You ain't doing anyone any good!! And cheating yourself!! The people who are truly happily single, don't harp on it..... nad by first glance, it would seem they are the ones least likely to be single!! I hope I have summarised things well..... if i have missed out any aspect do let me know!! till then, cheerio!!
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@techsam (158)
• India
18 Feb 07
ummm............ would u care to explain your point a little more, drsanjeeva!!
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@nuel_h (1592)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 07
well. they should be. i am happy and i never said about it or emphasizing it.
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• India
13 Feb 07
thats what... if you are a single and you are happy but u are not emphasizing it... then your are absolutely true... but what about those who emphasizes !! are they really happy to be single ??
@oarnamav (2708)
• India
16 Feb 07
It normally happens with abnormal thinking persons. They do this idiotness at the right age & feel lonly when all age-mates get enguaged with thier partners. Just to proove a differentness they adopt this track, but repent on the issue after the time has gone. I call this attitude as a walk-put to life game. A person with a poor heart & wicked mentality does such a kind of blundor in life.