Why do cats pick on each other?
By bkfuels
@bkfuels (1603)
Canada
10 responses
@the_dreamer2005 (1175)
• United States
13 Feb 07
I have 3 cats and one of them picks on the smaller one. Maybe it's the issue of feeling important. Or perhaps the cat is just feeling too much cabin fever and is taking it out on your oldest. I'd try to comfort her so she won't keep hiding.
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@junishido (9)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
cats like to be independent and incharged once another cat comes into the picture it threatens them i have 5 so i kno all about the crayness but after time the get along
@junishido (9)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
the cat will just have to prove it self i guess i had that problem but they all started to get along eventualy
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@tad1fan (3367)
• Canada
14 Feb 07
Pet cats have the same instincts as wild cats,when there is more than 1,they have a 'leader',You're older cat was probably the leader at one time but now is getting older and more weaker than before and therfore,the 'new' cat....the one picking on him is trying to push him out of the way and take over leadership.....this happens with all animals,wild or domestic.....hope this helps
@tictac714 (975)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Your cat looks a lot like mine. I have two ragdolls that are brother and sister, and 6 months old. They "fight" a lot, and it's usually in good fun but every now and then the bigger one seems to be going a bit overboard and the other runs away and I have to kind of yell to calm down and luckily he does. I really don't know why they do that, so I guess I can't help much. Sorry. =(
@Wanderlaugh (1622)
• Australia
14 Feb 07
It's territorial. Cats in groups tend to act like prides of lions. The one attacking is going for senior cat. (Occasionally there is a personal element, but usually it's the hierarchy thing.) Female cats tend to be a bit cooler usually, but obviously not, this time.
Make it clear that the attacks aren't going to be tolerated. Banish the attacker every time she does that. That will reassure the victim, and explain that you're the one making the rules. That, they will get. The other cats will understand that attacking isn't allowed, too, and will tend to shun the attacker.
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@Wanderlaugh (1622)
• Australia
14 Feb 07
Fair question. The other cat is probably at the non-combatant age.
By "banish" I meant right out of the house, into the laundry or some other place of penance, sent to Coventry. The other cat needs to know this will not be permitted. It's discipline, really. You don't need a feline civil war in the home.
The other cat really does sound like she needs to know who's Top Cat, and it's you. Your older cat will have a life of real misery if you don't put your foot down.
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@bkfuels (1603)
• Canada
14 Feb 07
Thank you I've tried this. She has been after Kiki off and on for a few months I get mad at her and grab Kiki and love her, the other one comes back sometimes and tries to get her again while she is in my arms. These cats have been together for years why now?
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@Alexandria37 (5717)
• Ireland
14 Feb 07
I never had more than one cat so I don't understand them. Maybe they are a bit like dogs. I always found that there was one domineering one among mine. I have also found this to be the case with my tropical fish.
@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
14 Feb 07
I only have two but the kitten does this to my older one and also to my doxie. I think it is his playful nature. I will take wander's advice and refuse to let it happen. I do not think the dog mines so much but my female is most likely pregnant and I have got to get him to leave her alone.
Thank for this discussion, I think it may help me out oo.
@bowlingqbert (48)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I don't necessarily think they are picking on each other. Maybe they are just playing around. Maybe like a hide and seek thing. But I do feel a little bad if one is always losing. :-( Hopefully she will win soon!